Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss May/June 2010

[possum magic]

Hello girls,

Murray cod good to hear from you. I can understand why it's hard to post. I also am afraid to say the 'p' word out loud in case it goes away! I have just discovered the PM box so i'll give that a go too!
ForShelby: Very disappointed FOR you but NOT in you. Don't feel silly. All your symptoms were pointing to a BFP and as you say all hope is not lost until you ride the crimson wave (lol!) I know how it feels to want to get pg right away and to convince yourself that it will happen. After only a few months of trying for my first baby i jokingly told my DH that the whole idea that BD leads to babies must be a myth! Very frustrating the whole waiting thing.

THopes: so glad you posted. Was starting to worry about you. Happy birthday for the other day. I'm glad you got some answers and now that your system has been 'flushed' and freshened up it will produce a beautiful BFP in short order! THanks for the well wishes. I'm going to keep spying on you if that's ok. Can't wait for you to be UTD too!

Loops: Fingers crossed for your symptoms!
SammyP: praying hard for you that this one is the one for you.
Iona Macca: your symptoms sound promising. I'm hanging out to hear what happens.
Damprye: how terribly frustrating. Is a visit to the gyno in order? Or what about a HPT?
MsKara: good idea to get healthy to prepare for baby. Might help to distract you a bit until bubs shows up (hopefully very very soon). Hope you'll feel like quilting again soon.
Reet: hope you are ok

Craftymummy: Haven't heard from you in a while, but i know you're lurking elsewhere (cos i've been stalking a bit!) Just wanted to say hi!
Hello to others who have also jumped ship for other threads. We miss you!
Hello to anyone i missed.

AFM: I did another HPT yesterday morning (couldn't wait till today as originally intended!) A second line showed up again and was darker than the first time. Definitely BFP (though not really dark as the control line but i think that's ok). I tried to take a picture but it didn't come out well and I'm not sure how to post it. I've been freaking out because i had clear pg symptoms for a couple of days and now they are more mild- boobs feeling sore and full at times but pretty mild and feeling slightly 'off' in the middle of the night but not really during the day. Cramps have died down. Oh, though i'm having more dreams than usual (which i had with both of last two pgs). BUt i expected to feel more ill. I'm hoping that i'm just going to be lucky and the baby will be ok and that i'll just have an easier first trimester rather than the lack of symptoms meaning something bad. Anyway, nothing to do but wait and hope. Hugs to all.