Theresa - You are not being selfish at all. We may have been trying for longer but you lost your little angel at 35 weeks. I was 6 weeks when I m/c and although it was devastating and the most traumatic thing I have ever experienced I can't imagine how you survived going through what you did.

Holding you and your DP in my thoughts and wishing the very best for you both. We have to cling to the hope that one day we will be celebrating the birth of our healthy baby with our partners and families.

HannahD - I too am angry at my body. I told my best friend the other day that I wanted to trade my body in for a new one!

plc - Thanks for hanging around in this thread to give us hope.

I 2009 is the year for us all - we all deserve some happiness and would all make wonderful mothers!