Mel--Oh, hon, please don't feel like you can't post when you're feeling negative and down! The whole point of this thread is to be able to share the ups and downs, the struggles, pain, and frustration.... and of course, the happiness, joy, friendship, and laughter are an added bonus! This thread is your sanctuary--if you can't express when you're feeling blue here with us, then when and where else can you? Family and friends, while they may try their hardest, just really don't get it--but we do! So please, take advantage of our shoulders--lean on us for support--that's what we're here for! Don't feel like you always have to be cheery and optimistic--we ALL have our down days! Big hugs for you! Remember..... our shoulders..... you lean..... My thoughts and prayers are with you on Sunday as you remember your angel baby!
Hannah--Enjoy your trip to Melbourne! Hope you can use that time to just relax and enjoy being with your friends--you could really use it, I think it will be great for you! Ooh, lucky you--I'm sure you'll really enjoy Wicked!
So sorry to hear about your cousin... please tell her that she and her baby are in my thoughts and prayers!
Angel--This place just isn't the same without you! Miss you much.... *kiss*
Big for my long-time mates smi, mollycat, Toccara, issy, Van, Chappas, WTH, megsmum, Easha, & Ruthie
And big for my new mates dellydoo, Tam, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracles, Rachel B, babyonboard, MO3B, missbec, joni, Milla, mumma&bubba, Melissa, Indy, & Possums
Big for my BFP friends Krystie(and little Chyan *kiss*), Mannie, jenushka, joey, fifi, larz, pbstar, tutmae, tina, plc, AJC, Katiegirl, Rachel S, & Leyza
Jen- yes DH is still trianing but he is training at the jail by on new place until the day after Thanksgiving then he going back to training all week out of town and coming home on the weekend he will be done jan 2nd ... so I guess I will offically be back to ttc in jan but I'm so scared to get pg again ...
ATM well I just found out my best friend is pg about two months along so her edd is about a month or couple weeks after what my last edd should have been I want to be happy for her but its a little hard I know she knows how I feel tho she lost a set of twins and had two more m/c's ... I'm looking forward to tcc again but at the same time I'm scared of having another m/c my heart can't take another lost ... I love all you girls big babydust and stickyvibes ....
Sorry to have not posted since my last downer of a post, but had to take a bit of time to myself to get over it all. And I'm feeling a bit better today, apart from being really tired from the nasal spray, so thought I'd better do a little post.
Toccara - It is so hard finding out about friend's pregnancies isn't it? It's not that you don't feel happy for them, but just more sad for yourself. I understand that fear too, I feel it myself but hang in there - you will have a baby to hold!
Jen - Hey there cycle buddy, we're a bit closer again this cycle! At least I haven't had to do the whole Pill thing again - no more long IVF cycles for me!!
Mel1979 - no doubt about it, one year anniversaries suck. I had mine 3 weeks ago today and it was awful. Make sure you and your DH take good care of each other on Sun!
HannahD - I'm so sorry about your cousin's bub, how awful for her I hope you have a nice time in Melbourne despite, it is such a great city to visit.
Mannie - Congratulations and all the best for today.
WTH - Good luck for today!! And thanks for the ear over the last few days.
Possums - Welcome to our thread and I'm so very sorry for your loss I hope your stay is a short one! The ladies here are a wonderful support. And like WTH said, there are a few of us here doing IVF as well, so I hope you feel right at home. Take care.
Ruthie - Yay for the health insurance, although I have to admit as a former health worker, you health system confuses the hell out of me LOL I'd be POAS with those symptoms too!
RachelS - Glad to hear the bleeding has stopped, take it easy...
dellydoo - So happy to hear that you've had an FET, all the best for the TWW!
Melissal - Hi and welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss The baby conversations are hard aren't they? I must admit that I avoid them wherever possible. Sounds like a good plan about the birth though, don't make yourself do anything that you don't think you can cope with, take it from me a birth is a pretty intense experience. All the best with whatever you decide.
Angel - Come back!! Will miss you too
Phew, I did it! I hope I got everyone, but a big hi to anyone that I have missed!
AFM, the sig covers it pretty much. Just sniffing and jabbing away for now and have my first scan on Mon. I am absolutely terrified we will have another disaster like last month
Ok so now I feel slight lower back cramping as if AF was comming.. then again I felt just that with this angel bub and my other two.. SOOOO CONFUSING!!!!
Rachelswirl: I would be too (paranoid) but your baby will make it nice, safe, healthy & sound to this world on your Due date!!!!! Sending you a HUGE MEGA SQUEEZING HUG your way!!!!!!!!!!!
Mel, HannhD, Dellydoo, Jen, Mannie, Possums: (holding your hands) tomorrow morning I will POAS.. whatever comes.. I will accept.
if BFP I will be happy scared..if BFN I will be ok. I am seeing the specialist in Nov. (just around the corner)
Thank you for your support! (all of you) means the World to me!
Jen Jen: LOVE YOU TO DEATH!!! Thank you sweet sweet momma.I needed that hug.. (nervous laughing)..LOL
let's see... I wanna POAS..just get it over with.
WTH: hugs to ya
Toccarra: You will have your miracle momma. I'm praying so hard for that.
Megsmum: Boy am I there with ya.. HI here SUCK.. some are good.. Thank God this one is the same HI hubby had a few years ago in his prev. job (REALLY REALLY GOOD) so am super happy about that.
I'm POASing tomorrow in the AM. (nervous as heck!!..LOL)
Boy a lot has happened in here since I last posted - it is difficult to keep up
Ruthie : Good luck with the test. Fingers crossed that you get your BFP, and that everything will be perfect this time around. You deserve it hon
Jen: you are such an amazing support for everyone on this thread. Big hug just for being you
Mel: Really feeling for you honey. Take care this sunday - maybe you could do something special to celebrate your angel on that day
Megsmum: glad you are feeling a bit better. Good luck with the scan on monday - wishing you lots of success this time around
Toccara - I know how you feel - I too am terrified of having another m/c. Fingers crossed we both get a BFP soon and a healthy baby to hold in our arms very soon
Hannah: Have a great time in Melbourne. So sorry to hear about what your cousin in going through. Let her know that there are a lot of people here praying for her
Possums - Sorry that you have had to join this thread though. I am also doing IVF. It can be so stressful can't it, and so devastating after taking so long to finally get a BFP, only to m/c. Praying that the next IVF cycle will be a success for us both, and for all of the ladies in this thread who are undertaking IVF.
Dellydoo - Wishing you every success with the FET. I am doing the same thing this cycle - first blood test next tuesday.
MO3B - I am so sorry you have been having such a hard time. Been thinking of you. Take care of you honey
Mannie - congrats on BFP - wonderful news
Jenuska, Rachelswirl, Tutmae and all other pregnant ladies - belly rubs for you and wishing you the most happy and healthy pregnancies. I hope lots more of us from this thread join you very soon
WTH, Angel, Megsmum, and everyone else I have missed. Sending you hugs and best wishes
Me (37) DF (50) 5 september 2008 (6 w 4 d)
FET this month (first blood test next tuesday!)
hi everyone...wishing you all well...and thanks again for the nice welcomes...
sorry just not up for more personals today....I'll get there though and will chat more
for today's appt!
My thoughts and prayers are with you on Sunday as you remember your angel baby!
Miss you much.... *kiss*
for my long-time mates smi, mollycat, Toccara, issy, Van, Chappas, WTH, megsmum, Easha, & Ruthie
for my new mates dellydoo, Tam, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracles, Rachel B, babyonboard, MO3B, missbec, joni, Milla, mumma&bubba, Melissa, Indy, & Possums
for my BFP friends Krystie(and little Chyan *kiss*), Mannie, jenushka, joey, fifi, larz, pbstar, tutmae, tina, plc, AJC, Katiegirl, Rachel S, & Leyza
and all the best for today.
Sorry that you have had to join this thread though. I am also doing IVF. It can be so stressful can't it, and so devastating after taking so long to finally get a BFP, only to m/c. Praying that the next IVF cycle will be a success for us both, and for all of the ladies in this thread who are undertaking IVF. 
5 september 2008 (6 w 4 d)
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