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    Hi girls,

    COOOOOMMMMMEEEE On Lisa, We are all cheering you on to get your BFP and i know that you are worried but if it is a BFP your cycle has been out of whack so it doesnt necessarily mean anything bad iykwim. We will support you either way chicky!

    Belle, I hope that you are feeling better after pulling yourself into work. I understand how you are feeling...for a loooong time after Katelyn was born i couldnt function like a normal person, i shut myself off from eveyrone in my life and i did think alot about it being depression but after quite awhile (and awhile into Lucy's pregnancy) it started to pass and i relised that it was grief. You have been through a life changing ordeal so dont be too hard on yourself for feeling a bit depressed. You will feel better in time although the sad feelings will always remain for what might have been for you and your baby but you will feel happiness again and you will have another baby in the near future. Hang in there mate.

    Kate, GL with your test i hope you get that BFP and that FF is right and you bed around the right time. I would go to the GP also because probably all they are going to do is refer you for the BT.

    Tanya, GL with your Boy diet, was it good to have a break off it?

    Shan, GL finding the right house and of course for this upcoming cycle.



    Love Sarah xx

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    Just checking to see if Lisa has updated us... I guess not... *sigh*

    Sarah, it was great to go off the diet... I growled at DP for buying me some takeaway with cheese in it the other day!! Soooo tempting! Not long to go and I can have a little break (hopefully FOREVA!)

    Jayne... LOL!!! Very funny!! And yes I wish AF would just po too!! It happens to me allll the time... I think she is gone, but she reapears the next day after being absent doe most of the day!

    Tanya

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    Hello there girlies,

    Lisa-- what's the G-O?? Sounds like the news will be good either way?

    Just a quickie-- I've been using OPK's for about 5 days but haven't had much luck with them. I have however had niggly ovulation pains and my temp took a massive dip y'day. What have you guys found more reliable? Could O still be yet to happen? Or have I missed it? This is my first month charting-- normally have a 28 day cycle but this is only my first cycle since first AF after D&C. I'm having progest. blood done on cd21 but I don't to miss O in the meantime. Spanx,

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    Hi Girls,

    OMG it has been crazy in here!!!

    Kate - Thanks for the info re weight loss. TWW is going slowly. Hows the tooth? I would probably just start with your GP for a BT.

    Sarah - Your U/S sounds fantastic. Thanks for being so thoughtful, but you would not have offended me by posting the details here!

    Sez - Thanks for the HPT critique! I hope you are feeling well, and staying relaxed.

    Hope - I hear you on all fronts about your test results. I am sure you will feel better after you see the specialist. When is that?

    Michelle - Congrats on the great OPK result.

    Lisa - The TWW is going SSLLOOOWWLLYY thanks for asking. Can't wait to hear the BT results.

    Belle - I hope you are feeling better. Once is definately enough. DH and I conceived my 3rd pg DTD only once. DH was in the states, and I Oed, I was sure we had missed the boat. I jumped DH as soon as he walked in the door which was 48 hours after I Oed, and 2 weeks later.....BFP!! Fingers crossed for you!

    Kelly - I was stalking yesterday to see your scan results. Congratulations. Try to keep the best image without any fingerprints on it. I started Scanlon's photo album with all his U/S images (i had 7 U/S) and with my fortnighty belly shots. It is really lovely.

    Jayne - Your little one sounds georgous! Hope the toilet training is going well.

    Shan - Hi, I hope you are OK

    Me - not much to report. 10 or so days to go until testing. I had a sharp pain on my cervix earlier tonight, and felt a trickle. I RAN to the toilet, but there was nothing. Bizzare. My sister comes back from a European and American holiday on Saturday. I am picking her up and I can not wait to see her. She is going to freak out at how much Scanlon has changed. He is still grumpy. Cant wait to see his paediatrition.

    Ciao for now

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    Sorry to crash this thread. Im a good friend of Sezjm and as she is unavailable tonight (dinner at her mums) I know that she wont mind me asking WHERE IS LISA? i am desperate to hear the news I hope your OK honey and both Sez and I are thinking of you and hoping for you every day!!

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    Lou was right, I have been at my mum's tonight. Just arrived home and logged on straightaway to check on everyone, but especially Lisa. Just as well I didn't log on earlier, cos otherwise I would have been going CRAZY waiting for Lisa's results!

    Lisa, I am thinking of you sweets, I have been all day. I am really hoping that you post tonight, I will check in again later and again in the morning before I go to work. If there's no news by then I shall have to wait until about 6pm tomorrow (which is going to kill me!)! I really hope you're okay, just post when you're ready. BTW, I think we would be kicked out of the class, and our dh's would be disgusted with us LOL!

    Belle, I'm glad I can put a smile on your face! Sometimes that remote would come in very handy, wouldn't it...........counting the days with you hun!

    Tanya, do you have to do *boy* bding as well as the diet? Can't wait to hear how it all goes!

    Shan, I'm sure you'll find the perfect house! I totally understand you waiting until it comes along, you'll love it when you make it in there, it'll be worth the wait!

    Jayne, I hope Jessica is getting better, it must be so horrible for you when she's sick. Poor little lamb!

    Kelly, so glad that you're starting to enjoy your pg and tell some more people. Good on you!

    Hope, I love OPKs, but some girls never get a real + on them, even though they do O. Go figure! Keep using them for a few days, you never know what may happen! And make sure you get in some bding action JIC!

    Paige, can't wait for you to test! I think there might be a few all at once in here YAY!

    Well I had a shocking morning. Just woke up feeling stressed and absoltuely worked myself into a state. Convinced myself that this pg won't last and I'll never have a baby. Feeling much more positive tonight which is great. Think I should go to bed soon, I'm very tired, but will be back in the morn to check on Lisa!

    Nighty night lovelies! Sez xoxo

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    Thanks for asking Paige and Lisa. Don't see specialist until November 6th (and that appointment was made a couple of days after my m/c in August!) I'm on the cancellation list. Probably could've gone to someone else but this guy did both my d&c's and I like the fact that he sees public patients. He has a good name around the area. Some friends have told me to keep ringing-- I might give it a go. Don't know what I'd do if I did manage to get pg. this cycle. Do you think ringing and crying would help? I'm quite willing to do it!! Not feeling too positive about this cycle anyway--first one and don't really know if it's back to normal after d&c. Have started charting though as it allows me to feel like I'm doing something proactive!
    Paige--Hope you have a fab time with your sister-- I'm sure you'll both hardly come up for air with all the gossip you'll have to catch up on!
    Lisa-- where are you? You've got the whole thread hanging!!
    Sarah-- How are you feeling at this stage?
    Megan-- When do you get your results back?
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    Hope just took a peek at your chart, it doesn't look like you have O'ed yet, but have fertile CM is a good sign you will O in the next few days (except for me who can have a couple of weeks of fertile cam before I pop the egg!!)

    Sez, there is so much infor out there re: gender swaying. I have conflicting research in my head that I am debating with myself about re: BDing. One is that Shettles method and there are loooots of opposites out there, but also lot of success stories. Then there is acutal gender dates worked out my luna and planitary cycles etc... I am just so confused!

    Paige, GL with the tww... it seems to crawl forever doesn't it!

    Lisa, where are you? My assuption is that you didn't get the results last night or they were neg and you was a bit sad...? Just guessing. I hope it was the former and you get a great surprise today

    Tanya

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    Lisa, where are youuuuuuuuu??!!! I've been hanging out for your results since yesterday afternoon LOL I hope that you got some fantastic news, sweetie...

    Michelle, you're so sweet...thank you for thinking of me. I must confess, I still stalk my old Jan belly buddies...it's just been too hard to post lately. I'm so thrilled you're having a perfect little girl...any ideas on names yet?

    Shan, I hope you have some luck in finding your *perfect* house soon. I'm sure something will come up before you know it!

    Kate, did you test this morning? It's hard to believe what FF tells you sometimes...it once gave me an O date of CD7! LOL You should post your chart here so we can all have a squiz!

    Tanya, you must have an iron will to be sticking to your strict diet...I couldn't do it! I was going to ask the same question as Sez about *boy* positions but was too embarrassed! LMAO The Shettles Method is meant to have decent results...

    Jayne!!! I hope you have a fabulous day sweetie and get absolutely spoilt rotten!

    Kelly, awwww I can totally understand you wanting to look at your scan all the time. What a precious thing! I'm glad that you're feeling a lot more relaxed now and can enjoy your pg.

    Sarah, thank you so much for your kind words. They were very touching, you brought a tear to me eye! How are you going anyway? Do you have any more scans coming up or is the next one at 12w?

    Hope, just keep doing the OPK's until you get a strong second line. I had to do about 10 this cycle until I got a positive because I didn't O until CD18! A +OPK coupled with a temp dip then rise is the best indication of O'ing. I can't go by CM at all...I only had EWCM on CD15 this cycle, 3 days before O! LOL

    Paige, that's a great story about conceiving 2 days after O'ing! Well, there's hope for me yet then!! LOL Looks like we're cycle buddies so let's hope that we both get a lovely little surprise in about 9 days

    Awww Sez, I hope you're feeling better today sweetie. I guess it's hard not to let those niggly little worries eat away at us. I just know that things will work out for you this time, everything will be just perfect. BTW, your bubba has a great EDD...my birthday is 2 June LOL

    Love & babydust
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    Hi all..

    Just a really quick one...

    Tested AGAIN this morning and was feeling really positive about it. Until 10mins after testing I looked at the results...NEGATIVE... ...I'm really quite upset about it this time, don't know why, but nevertheless I have to go on...but for the moment I've made an appointment with my GP but unfortunately I can't get in to see him until 9 October...he's going on holidays. I could go to another Dr but all my history is with him...

    Anyway, I'm just going to lay low for a while until AF show's her pitiful mug...hurry up DAMN IT!!!

    Take care everyone and I'll talk to you all soon,

    Luv & Hugs,

    Kate x.

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    Hello girls,

    Ohhh thank you all so much for asking after me - didnt mean to leave you all hanging like that.

    Righto - well Im really going to need the supportive of you wonderful ladies over the next two weeks...blood test came back POSITIVE for pregnancy :eek: but the dr said the levels were a bit low but that could all depend on O and implantation time etc etc.. So I was a blubbering mess in the arvo, and went off to see my NP. She told me that the energy of bubs was okay but that if I stressed tooo much I would cause the baby stress. She told me not to worry about my levels etc.. she said that my body was telling her im pregnant and its all in my aura and the baby's aura is glowing around my belly. She gave me herbs to relax and she also gave me some fetal support herbs which I have to drink in tea form.

    I feel rather quesy and dont know if its from all the emotions or from actually being pg. My belly feels really tight atm, and i have been having some pains in the right side (where there is no tube??).

    Now its just a waiting game girls. Im so worried, but I know you will help me through no matter what the outcome.

    Sorry not in mood for personals,

    Love to you all,
    Lisa

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    Hi Girls,
    Just a quickie, I think Scanlon is waking up.

    LISA, LISA, LISA OMG. I have a lump in my throat. YAY We are hear for you!!!! Try not to worry about your levels, Like your Dr said it all depends on when you O'ed. This is so fantastic. Lean on us for all the support you need.

    Kate - Sorry about the BFN. Sometimes it is easier to assume the worst even when AF has not shown her face yet, so I'll be hopeful for you! I am sure you are feelin down, but we are here.

    Tanya - I have a whole pile of emails from the Birth Planning Centre in Quebec, they cover all sorts of gender selection, diet, timing of BD, even Vaginal Douche (which I think may be illegal in Aust). Id say PM me but I dont know how. If your interested let me know. Im sure I can get them to you some how.

    Belle - Hi, Hope you are OK. TWW is crawling for me, what about you?

    Ciao for now

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    Congratulations Lisa.

    Sending you lots of

    Did you Dr say what the levels are ?

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    With all the emotion of being told im pg - i didnt really ask what the level was!

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    OMG Lisa!!!!! :eek: CONGRATULATIONS!!! I just knew it, sweetie!

    It's probably hard to know when you O'ed because you don't chart so I'm sure your levels are low because the pg was picked up really early. Did they give you an hCG reading?

    Please listen to what your NP said...the bubba can feel your stress so just relax and know that everything will be ok.

    Wow, yet another graduate to PAML. You girls are really on a roll! LOL

    Kate, so sorry for your BFN. As Paige said, we're all here for you so please vent away. Maybe FF is right and you're only 9DPO in which case it may just be too early to detect. Huge hugs sweetie

    Paige, yup the TWW is a shocker huh! I'm not at all confident about this cycle (it's been aaaaaaall over the place! LOL) so I'm actually just really keen for AF to arrive so we can give it our all next cycle! Do you think you'll test?

    Love & babydust
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    OMG..Lisa, i'm so so so very happy for you babe. I know how hard it must be right now, but your NP is right, just 'think happy thoughts' and your bubba will be fine. Oh you have totally made my day...Congratulations sweetie, you deseve it so much....xxxxxxx

    PS. Don't worry too much about your levels ATM...i can remember when Danni got her BFP her levels were quite low to start with, and now she's going great guns....love you...xxxx

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    Congrats Lisa!!! Yes my levels were very low as were many other BB'ers too.

    Relax and enjoy the ride hunny

    Sezjm: I didnt know you were pregnant! congrats

    **** Spreading heaps of baby dust in here!!!****

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    Thanks Dan - I hope I follow in your footsteps!!

    Thanks to all the other gals for thier kind words.

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