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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2009 #2

  1. #145
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    Jan 2009
    169

    Greenslw... you sound so happy and so positive! Yay I am happy and excited for you. I am sure this time will be THE ONE for you and you will get for BFP and your forever baby.. sending you some pre baby dust and sticky vibes. Make sure you keep the smile on your face and rainbow in your heart! good luck for Wednesday!

  2. #146
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    Oct 2008
    Tasmania
    214

    I am in so much pain with this headache. I am on the verge of throwing up and can hardly look at computer to type.

    Is it safe to take panadol if i am pg?

  3. #147
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    Jan 2009
    169

    just plain panadol is fine hun

  4. #148
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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    Mel - Yes panadol is safe to take during pregnancy....It sounds like you could really use it. If you're concerned maybe just try one tablet first and then take the second if that doesn't work. I hope it goes away soon.

  5. #149
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    Jan 2009
    169

    hmmm.. thought i posted this already.. but now I can't find it - weird.. try again.

    ok, i have a couple of pics to share. A friend of mine did these while we were both ttc.. she is now preg and (due in Oct) and I thought I would share them with you lovely ladies. I hope they work.

    Mel.. if they work, the way you do it is just go into member gallery and you can go and upload them through there.

    https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...0&ppuser=22303

  6. #150
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    Apr 2007
    NZ
    359

    Hi girls,

    I hope you don't mind me dropping in and leaving this message! Two years ago this group was my lifeline - I was a mess after losing my first baby and having a missed miscarriage. I stayed sane because of the support of girls like you. Even though I don't know you, I am so thankful for people like you who are there to support each other through the tough times.

    I am now mum to the happiest and most well-behaved baby ever. My son is now 8 months old and I am loving every moment of being a mum. I really think that having a miscarriage changes you to appreciate each and every day you have being a mum. I can't imagine life without him but I still remember the dark days on the journey to getting here.

    As I hit the 2 year anniversary of losing my first, the one thing I wanted to do was come in here and give the girls in this topic a huge virtual hug and a little bit of encouragement. I'd go through anything to be able to result in having the son I am blessed with now, he is incredible. I hope you are given the desires of your heart soon and get to meet the most wonderful little boys and girls ever too.

    With love...

  7. #151
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
    856

    Kiwigirl: Thank you so much! That is so beautiful and so inspirational! I know that Ill treasure every moment when it comes and I cannot wait. I never thought I would lose my first baby and Im a little angry that my first pregnancy will be tainted and worried that Ill lose the next one too but listening to more and more success stories is so helpful.

  8. #152
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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    Good Morning to my favorite gurlies!

    Hi shortcake!

    jen...Miss Nahla is doing great! She actually scared me yesterday...I usually get little flutters right before the big nudge (unfortunately I don't get to feel her moving around too often at this stage - anterior placenta stinks!) anyways yesterday she let me have it twice with no warning... I wasn't expecting it thus the scare...
    Personally I think jen is a wonderful name...but seems we are really taken with Nahla *wink*
    DF video was off the chain...GREAT JOB! And umm...LOVE the tongue ring!
    Oh yeah...sunshine didn't quite make to me today...keep trying...it's rainy and 54 for a high...uuuugggghhhh!

    Mel...



  9. #153
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    Jan 2009
    Pennsylvania
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    Jen-That video was amazing. It looked like DH had a great time and he seems to be really good at it. Thanks for sharing!

    Charm- I would make an appointment with the doctor. I had to have medicine to get AF after my D&C.

    Coco-I'm so excited for you. A faint line is still wonderful. Are you going to test with FMU? Let us know what happens!

    Sally- I'm glad your having such a great time on vacation!

    cherished-How sweet of DH to talk to your belly and reassure you.

    boble-How cute of DH to be trying to find signs to hold out hope. I pray that this is your month.

    Greenslw- Sending you lots of baby dust and sticky vibes. Reading your post really helped lift my spirits.

    Mel-I hope your head feels better.

    smi-I'm glad Nahla is doing well. I cannot wait to see pictures of her.

    kiwigirl-Thank your for your beautiful post. Its stories like that that give us hope during our worst moments and keeps up going for our dreams.

    to erybery, WTH, coco, Hannah, & Mollycat (sorry to anyone I missed)

    AFM- I'm trying to hold out hope that this is my month but for some reason I'm just not feeling it. I have a few symptoms but nothing like when I was pg before. Not sure if I'm going to test again anytime soon. I think I'm going to wait and see if AF arrives first.

  10. #154
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    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Argh! It's Monday.... need I say more? Back to the busy schedule.... DS has a dentist appt. this morning, before I have to be back at the school to do lunch. Plus, I'm supposed to be hanging out around the house in case the new phone I ordered comes--it's due today, and needs a signature. Wish Spring break wasn't over--actually, I'm slightly relieved the boys are back to school, I just wish that didn't mean I had to go back, as well! Would much rather be home in my jammies and on bb! Bring on summer!

    Anyhow, will be back later for persies!


    Oh, and YES, for those that have asked, that is me talking at the beginning of DF's video! I never realized that I would have an accent!

  11. #155
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    WTH--If DF's helmet cam had captured me running towards him for a smooch, there would've been no video of his landing! Cute idea, tho, that would've made a grand finale!



    Hannah-- for my little cyber sis!



    sally--Sounds like you're enjoying Broome! Wishing you sunny days and procreative nights! lol....



    cherished--A fellow stalker, eh? I told you, it's very addicting!! Oh, excuse me, I meant to say that you're very dedicated at observing your fellow bb member's charts--sounds so much nicer that way, don't you think?



    coco--Ooh, I'm quietly sending positive vibes your way!



    boble-- about you turning up the end of DF's video! I love that part! He kept asking me if it was stupid, and should he cut it out.... I think it makes the whole video!

    About your question.... I also didn't know there was anything wrong with my pg'cy. I began spotting 2 days before what would've been 13 weeks. When I convinced them to give me an u/s, they said my baby had passed at 8 weeks. So for 5 weeks my body still thought I was pg.... even after my m/c, it took another 6 wks. for the hcg in my system to get back down to 0. It was very frustrating and confusing knowing that I had m/c'd, but still feeling completely pg! I was still starving every morning, and talk about impressive bb's! None of my regular clothes fit, and I didn't want to wear anything that I had worn when I was pg, because I kept thinking "last time I wore that I was pg".... It's awful how tricky your body can be sometimes! The strange thing is, when I first found out I was pg, I almost panicked--wanted an u/s right away (even though my pg'cy with DS2 prior was normal and uneventful)... I called several times, and the nurse finally told me, "Jenny, relax and enjoy being pg, everything will be fine!" So I did.... and it wasn't.... just makes me wonder about that initial intuition I had... that panic I felt. Maybe somehow I did know.... I don't know, but it's interesting, and I definitely believe in the power of intuition!



    charm--Big *hugs* for you, hon... I hope your cycle works itself out soon! After 9 weeks, it's probably best to just give your gyno a call to see what he thinks. Best of luck to you!



    Mel--I'm picturing you diving out of a plane after a huge slice of chocolate cake! Maybe that will help get me out of the plane when I do my tandem! I'll tell them to throw out a pineapple cheesecake, and we'll dive after it like crazy people! Wish I could help you with posting your POAS--there used to be a link at the top of the page, but it's gone AWOL along with the photo gallery! Sending some extra sticky I don't know... pink just suits you! *wink wink!*



    Greenslw--Lots of for your FET on Wed! Praying for a successful transfer!

  12. #156
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    I just lost my whole post!!!!!!!!!!



    Ok.... I was leaving another post for my Friday girls, and I lost the whole d@mn thing! Luckily I was leaving a separate post, because if I would've lost that first one, I would've screamed!

    Anyhow, to make a long story short, for my Friday girls! Sorry, you each had individual posts before, but I'm not going thru all that again! Love my girls, tho!



    Also, forgot to thanks kiwigirl for the inspirational post! Thanks so much for giving us hope!



    smi--Rainy and 54 huh.... DF just called from the weather station at his work--99 degrees! HOT!



    Shortcake--Your days 8,9, & 10 look JUST like my days 6,7, & 8!! Weird! Don't give up yet!



    Ok, note to self....just so I don't make another mistake....click copy, then send!

  13. #157
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    Jan 2009
    169

    Just quickly coz I have to get ready for work... I woke up and took my temp today and then ff changed my O date to cd 23 - which doesn't seem right to me.. plus that will mean we have NO HOPE this month because I havent felt all that sexy while ive been spotting iykwim. *sigh* I had a very very restless sleep last night (due to being cranky at dh last night... looks like i found my pms after all )- should I disregard the temp?

  14. #158
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Hey all,

    Just lurking and trying to keep up with everyone!

    I am still waiting for some of you (you know who you are!) to finally admit the BFP!!!! yay! so excited I can't stop popping in!

    I will be back on line Wed/Thurs (I am at work today & Friday this week), but will be lurking occassionally.

    Hugs to you all

    xx

  15. #159
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    Jan 2009
    169

    Rhi - here is a super big just for you xxx

  16. #160
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    boble--I don't know.... I still say CD17 based on that low temp that day! It's still the lowest temp you've had all month--plus when you had the EWCM! Does ff give you a reason for the change? For example, mine may say it's unsure due to my CM not correlating with my temps, or something like that.... Besides the spotting, did you only enter a temp, or did you add any other stats that aren't visible to me?

  17. #161
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
    856

    Hi everyone

    It was a shadow line I was seeing yesterday..I did read about them on peeonastick.com and I had a big drop today and reddish stuff when I wiped so Im out. Im ok because as i mentioned, i already accepted it when i was spotting the other day and Ive just been waiting for it to hurry up!

    Hope you're all wellxx

  18. #162
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    Jan 2009
    A Pirate Ship
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    Hi everyone, just a quicky cause I'm at work...

    Boble I agree with the chart whisperer CD17!

    Coco Next month we will get our BFP xoxoxoxo

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