Hello wonderful ladies - I am a big lurker still on this thread. I cant seem to stay away even tho I have since had my baby girl. But it still feels like not so long ago I was in here saying and feeling all the same things that you are all experiencing. I read your posts and I remember all too well the frustration and desperation and silently just wish you all the strength to keep keep trying and never give up hope because it can and will happen for each of you.

cherished - I read your post about waiting to TTC after a D&C and what I wanted to say has already been said. My ob explained also to wait for AF because of the uterine lining needing to be nourished so as to get back to normal. I have had 2 D&C's and it was absolute torture to wait each time - I can't even explain how it was for me. I do look back on that time and think how amazing one month is like an eternity when you want something so badly yesterday. Then ironically 9mths just flies by and here my little girl is already 3mths old. It has flown. You will do the right thing for you hun and I have every faith that your earth bubba will come to you - as soon as possible.

There is one thing I want to add. I look at my baby girl and I am absolutely in love with her. Her smiles and laughs just move me to tears sometimes and I just find myself gazing at how precious and beautiful she is. Emotionally torturous as my m/c's were and ever saddened by the fact that I didnt get a chance to hold my angel babies in my arms (you never ever forget them), I know that I would never have known this wonderful creature that I have in my arms now if things had not gone as they have for me. She simply wouldnt exist - and when I think of the joy that she uniquely has brought into our lives, I am ever grateful that she, as a perfect little individual, has been blessingly bestowed upon us.
I sincerely hope one day - that you will each be blessed in the same way.


ETA - Jen - we were posting at the same time - me too, hope we can catch up!