Juleswa - I am soooo sorry for your loss. We are all hear for you and understand what you are going through. Last year I fell preg after many irregular cycles. At 8 weeks I had some very light bleeding/spotting and went to my OB who did a scan and said the baby was gone and the sac only measured 5-6 weeks. He thought I would naturally miscarry in the coming days. He said to come back in a week just in case my dates were really wrong and the baby just wasnt big enough to be seen. I didn't miscarry and went back a week later to schedule a D&C as I could not handle the waiting any longer knowing my baby was gone. I felt a D&C was the quickest way to move on and was very scared of being alone at home and in pain. The actual procedure is fine, very quick and your asleep and then go home in a couple of hours. I had light bleeding for 2 weeks after and some cramping (but not as bad as period cramps). The choice of what to do is hard and only you can make it. I really pray you will feel at peace with your decision. We were told to wait one cycle before TTC again to let my lining build up.
Best wishes and know that you can ask, say, scream anything you want in this forum without being judged. xox.