Thankyou missykg you neally set me off again i think i have been holding it all in too much i think i might mention to my close friends that im really not coping as well as i thought as one of them had just announced her second pg when i m/c and i cant handle her talking about it aaalllll the time but dont want to ruin her time by saying i cant here this the main thing is she is whinging about how sick she is and how she was never this sick with Leah its soooo a boy etc. I was so sure i was having a boy and all i keep thinking is and want to scream it is "JUST BE BLOODY GLAD YOUR PG AND STOP WHINGING" thanks again your amazing....