Cilmum, I think we all appreciate your honesty! You can't help but approach bd'ing slightly differently when you have one outcome in mind. I'm also hearing you loud & clear about pg friends & comparing where you would have been. My BF was due 2 weeks after me & I find I'm not seeing her as much as normal because it hurts seeing her & being reminded of where I should have been. I have lots of pg bellies around me at the moment & as much as I try to be strong & happy for them it does get me down sometimes.... Still, when we do get our BFP we will not take things for granted & will cherish being pg more than most because of what we have lost.
BTW....I had a wisdom tooth out earlier in the year so I know exactly what you are going through. Poor you - hope you feel better soon!
Shan, I hope the cramping isn't af...take care.
Hi to all the other ladies as well - be kind to yourselves...