... 6789

thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #3

  1. #127
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    jenushka-- Congratulations on the great scan and :heatbeat: I'm so happy for you!



    Got my temp entered, and it was really high... had broken sleep all night long, though, so may not be accurate. Didn't get any yesterday, and had really bad O pain on left all day yesterday. Hope I didn't miss it! G-ma is taking us out to a new restaraunt tonight--I'm going to get a strawberry margarita!



    AJC--Congrats on telling your parents tonight!! I'm sure there will be lots of happy


    tutmae--What's your youtube called--can I check it out?


    Oh, btw girls, we were taping our trip around Hollywood today, and we're going to make a video out of our trip so we can put it on youtube--that way you guys can feel like you were on my trip with us!! Will let you all know when we get it done and put on youtube! Ok, gotta get ready for dinner, will check back in later!

  2. #128
    Registered User

    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    Tutmae - Sounds good. PM them to me and I'll have a look.

    KL - Getting paid to visit the doctor? Sounds like a good idea to me. Perhaps if you get paid enough, you could get poken by a bird more often?

    AJC - Thanks for your baby dust and positive thinking. I need a little more before I test again tomorrow morning please. Hope all of your relies do the right thing by you when you make your announcment.

    Toccara - Sorry to hear about that cow of a woman turning up, AF.

    Smilanatu - Yeah, will try again in the morning.

    Mollycat - Will have a good talk to it!

    Tina - That sucks! Let's go again tomorrow.

    KL - WHAT?!! You were the last hope. This is wrong, ALL WRONG!! We're all supposed to get BFP's together NOT BFN's. Grrr

    Jen & Easha & Issy - Thanks. I really really hope it's too early

    Jen - awesome idea about UTubing your trip!! Will definately look in when you give us the link.

    AFM - Well, had trouble getting to sleep last night because I was so excited about POAS in the morning. Woke up at midnight after having a dream that I was at my dad's and POAS there, and it was a BFN and then had to log on to BB and tell you all. When I was younger, whenever I had negative dreams, in real life the experience turned out to be positive. So I went back to sleep, thinking that I will get a BFP cause my dream was a BFN. All following??? So then I was waking every 30 mins or so, and really needed to pee, but gave myself a 4am deadline... just hold on till then. So 4am comes, I go POAS... BFN. So I go back to bed totally ****ed off, after putting the stick near the kettle, so DH will see it when he goes for his early morning coffee. I end up sleeping in till 9am (other than waking to take my temp at 6.45, as usual). At 9am I need to pee again, so I figure, I have a test, I can't just waste the pee! So I do another one. And I'm not sure if it's real, or not, but if you stand on one foot, and poke your tongue out, and hold the stick on just the right angle you can see the faintest, tinyest little 2nd line. So I dunno if that's just a manufacturing thing, it's there in the background ready to jump out when needed, or if it really is a teeny weeny bit of hCG. I'm really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really praying that it's the second option. So I go to the store and buy a different test, that says that you can test up to 5-7 days before your missed AF and you need 10 whatever the measurement is, in your system. So I think, "this will be better, sounds more sensitive, cause the other one doesn't advertise the level of whatever needed". So I get home and test with that one at 12.45pm, and nothing ... BFN! Grrr. So now I have to go and buy more of the original brand - cause I don't trust the other ones. And have another restless nights sleep until I can POAS tomorrow. I would be interested to hear at what DPO other girls have received their BFP's. I got mine at 10DPO last cycle, but if you look at that cycle on FF, perhaps I Oed earlier than they say??? So from 9am till 12.45pm I was in a pretty good mood, thinking I may very well be UTD, and now I've taken the second test, I've turned into the wicked witch of the west. Poor DD. I've locked myself in the office though while I am chatting to you girls, to save her from me.

    So, testing again tomorrow. I really hope this stick knows what it's doing. I think the last one failed pee school!
    :goodluck2: KL & Tina for tomorrow.


  3. #129
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    I don't know what to say to you three girls Joey, Krystie and Tina how dare those tests just not work properly. Hopefully it's just too early and we'll all have great results soon.
    If not kick AF where it hurts when she dares show up.

    AJC - Good luck tonight. I think all the grannies and poppies are going to be over the moon with your wonderful news. All the cousins, etc, had better be too, or i'll send Jen after them, closely followed by Joey.

    Well I'm back from my first aid course, kicking myself, i knew the right answer and marked the wrong spot, but didn't matter as it was the only mistake on it. Just got a phone call from a gf, spending the night with her, having a girlie night (her hubby and kids are camping with my lot)

  4. #130
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    All the poas-ers: I say we demand those little lines start doing there job and giving you those BFP's we all know are there! Sheesh! Tricky little buggers!!

    Krystie: How'd it go with the free sticky date pudding?? Or the pirate costume?

    Jen & Joey: I'll pm you our myspace. I'm the fatty. And the only girl in the band.

    AFM: Gig went REALLY well last night!! But enjoyed myself a little too much (naughty ) and slept in!! So no temp taken today, but I'll take it tomorrow! Promise!!

  5. #131
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    Oh, almost forgot. My memory being as shoddy as it is, for those of you thet wanted to know how to get your FF link to have a fun name, all you do is write what you want it to say, highlight it then click the "insert link" button and enter your link in the popup. It'll look something like this at the end (without the spaces in the url bit):

    [ URL= "http://www.fertilityfriend.com/usercodething" ]Yada yada hilarity[/URL]

    and this when it's done:

    Yada yada hilarity

  6. #132
    Registered User

    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    MollyCat - Have an awesome night with your GF. That should be heaps of fun.

    Tutmae - Bloody sticks. Don't know what they're doing! No Temp? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! You go and sit on the naughty seat for 5 minutes please.

    Thanks for the yada yada help. I'll have a go.

    Sweet BFP dreams


  7. #133
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
    2,341

    No peeing on a stick for me tomorrow. AF reared her ugly head this afternoon at work. I don't really understand what's happened. Either I ovulated 2 days earlier than FF says, or AF came 2 days early. DH and I are pretty devastated about it this month because we were so sure that I was pregnant this month. I'm ready to find a nice little hole to climb into and cry. I think I just need to let myself be sad tonight, so that tomorrow on CD1 I can pick myself up and start again with a positive attitude. I think it's hitting me really hard because next wednesday I would have been 20 weeks pregnant, and I just wanted that baby so much it hurts.

  8. #134
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    Oh KL. I'm so sorry hon! Eat lost of chocolate and just look after yourself! Hope you feel better tomorrow, hon!

  9. #135
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    Sydney :)
    317

    thank you so much to all of you who wished us poas'ers well!

    krystie: im so sorry that AF arrived hon...i know how hard it is when you think its your month and then bam...here she is....praying its next month for you....

    joey: stupid tempramrntal sticks....lets hope tomorrows one behaves itself

    well, i did a 2nd one (different brand), and i still got a really faint line, but its definitely there...so...i think ......im going to calll it a !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    ill test again tomorrow anyway, so ill keep you all posted...at this stage hubby and i are tentatively getting excited, but were trying not to get ahead of ourselves yet...oooohhhh...is it tomorrow yet????

  10. #136
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    TINA! YAY! I'm gonna that little line is darker tomorrow! YAY!!!! Congratulations!!!!

  11. #137
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Krystie - i went shopping and bought you the most beautiful pair of shoes. All right, I'll say anything to cheer you up. I'm so angry at AF, she just has no manners. Be as sad as you want tonight. Tomorrow is a new day and the start of a new cycle ------ bring on that April baby (hey, it can be my birthday present)

    Tina and hoping really hard that the faint line turns into a big thick dark one tomorrow for you.

    Joey - the evening was great fun, just ended yucky. She lives on in the middle of nowhere, we were sitting talking and there was a sudden loud banging noise, like something got knocked over. Her dog was tied up - so it wasn't that. There's an old man who lives in a little cottage on their property but he is tucked up inside his cottage so we still don't know what it was, her mum and dad came over and drove around for a look see, but couldn't see anything, so she's now scared and jumpy, packed up and went to stay with her parents for the night and I came home. (I was going to stay the night too, but just didn't feel comfortable.) We've decided next time the boys all go away, we're going away too. These are the ones that own the house at the bay, so we'll head up there.

  12. #138
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Yay !!!!! Tina... bring on the darker line in the morning...

    Joey, you wll be following shortly... given you tested at 4AM the HCG was probably stil ASLEEP !! the HCG is awake tomorrow

    sorry KL to hear about AF have a few wines, chocolate and a long hot bath... for you

    Jen - hope you enjoyed your margarita

    AFM - just passing the time, BB still sore and watching temps very closely.

    Sleep tight ladies

  13. #139
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Tina congratulations!!! for darker line

    KL Sorry af showed up been feeling down myself this week since witch arrived, it is 1 year next week since found out was pregnant with 1st

    Joey hope you get that BFP tom.
    _______________________________________
    me 33 dh 42
    4

    August 07

    November 07 (11 wks)

  14. #140
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    306

    Oh, Tina yay!!!!!!! That's great news Looking forward to hearing about that lovely darker second bfp line tomorrow. I'm so happy for you hun


    Joey - for sure it was a bit too early and that bfp was just hiding. GL for next test *fingers crossed*


    Krystielove - big big hun. I am so sorry to hear af has arrived.Take whatever time you need to be sad and be very kind to yourself. You are such a positive person though I have no doubt you'll be able to find those positive vibes for next cycle...

    jen - hollywood? Wow! Thanks for your congrats on the scan too OMG with o pains you MUST bd tonight!

    issy - good to hear from you, strange thing about the sore bb's though? Any theories?

    tutmae - glad the gig went well, make sure you temp tomorrow!

    AJC - enjoy telling your parents - I bet there will be lots of hugs and happy tears - enjoy it

    Better go, eyes are almost closed and my bed is calling me.

    Night night lovelies, for you all

  15. #141
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Good morning girls....it sure does screw with my BB schedule when I'm on vacation! It's just after 9 a.m., and this is only my first post--I'm usually posting by 6:30 at the latest! It seems like I'm wasting valuable BB time! lol...


    joey--I'm SO anxious for you to test! I always thought you had to be like 12-14 DPO to get a BFP--maybe you should test on even days like Krystie, and wait until Mon. Yeah, right, I know how hard it is to hold out! Good luck, hun, I'm saying all the prayers for you that I can!!


    mollycat--Well, I was going to say that I hope you enjoyed your girlie night, but I'm sorry it ended so unexpectedly. So you never did find out what made the loud noise? Creepy....


    tutmae--Ok, I'm a retard or something... Clicked on the myspace link, and I see a pic of guy getting his ear chewed off, and I hear music, but can't seem to bring up the video or any pics. Will try again as soon as I'm done posting. The music sounds great, though--that's you singing??? Shame on you for forgetting to take your temp--how can I properly stalk your chart if there's no temp for me to stalk???? I guess I'll let it slide just this once--please make sure it doesn't happen again!!! lol...


    Krystie--Aww, I'm so very sorry that biotch had the nerve to ruin your BFP plans--I'm going to hunt her down for you, and give her a nice, swift, kick in the a$$!! Bring on the April babe's--DS's b-day is the 22nd, so must be a lucky month! Just think...now the odds are better that we'll both be pg together for your (hopeful) trip to CA at the end of the year!


    tina--Congrats on your tentative BFP!!! for a much more profound 2nd line this am!!
    Must've been from your baby-making weekend away!!


    Easha--I enjoyed 2 margaritas!!!


    jenushka--You won't believe it--no for 2 days!!! Have a feeling it won't be happening for me this month, but of course, it's way too early to tell--so happy, positive thoughts, right?


    AFM.... So much for competitions... feeling very frustrated atm... feels like DF is way more into when it's not my fertile window... he says it's just a coincidence, but I don't know... I'm thinking not! I know that we're at g-ma's, but that's never stopped him from trying before, so why start now? Anyhow, I'm feeling a little grumpy this morning... grrr!, especially since I had another high temp this morning, so I'm sure I'll be getting my coverline either tomorrow or the next day. Also noticed last night that CM seemed to be a little tacky, so with the watery CM gone, I'm sure my fertile days are done for this month! Sorry to be such a downer...I just needed to vent-- thanks girls, for being here for me to vent to! Will check back in later...

  16. #142
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    joey--I know you couldn't read my poem the other day, and if you still can't, then I completely understand. However, I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you right now, and I don't want you to forget that we're all here for you!


    We've all been brought together
    In grievance of our losses,
    To bring each other comfort
    And support as we bear our crosses.

    We found no comfort elsewhere
    And as we searched in vain,
    We came across this lovely site
    to share each other's pain.

    With unconditional support
    And unmatched understanding,
    There is no judgement here.
    Only patience, love, and kindness,
    That's assured to be sincere.

    Everyday is still a struggle,
    The memories always there
    But I know I'll make it through
    Because all of you are there!



    Big, huge,hugs!!!

  17. #143
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    tutmae--Am I looking at the wrong thing--I see 2 girls??? Looks like one on keyboard and one singing--are you the one singing? Are you Phoebe? Had to have DSD sign onto myspace to view it...the music sounds great! Hey, can you put any pics in the gallery? I'm trying to find everyone I talk to and put it in my "favorites". I've got about 6 so far, but would really love to have a pic of everyone IYKWIM! Thanks!

  18. #144
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    That's the wrong one jen! The one with the guy having his ear being eaten is mine! The's my dh and me. How lovely!!

    I refuse to believe you've missed your window!! I'm still hoping for that BFP for you!

... 6789