thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #4

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
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    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Sorry, this is going to be a "me" post for a minute... I'm so confused... Just entered this morning's temp, and FF changed my coverline and O day! My score went from "high" to "low" chance of conception! Instead of O'ing on CD14 (which maybe I still could've, since I had really bad O pains that day?) it says I O'ed on CD 16--which means we only BD'ed once while I was fertile! Damn it!

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    Apr 2008
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    Jen: WHAT?! How can it do that??!! Maybe what it was doing was getting you all positive when baby was conceived, then lowering your expectations after so that when that hits it'll be even better??!!

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    Thanks, Tutmae, you're sweet... I've had FF change my chart before, but that was prior to temping when I was only checking CP & CM--in situations like that I can understand that there's not really enough info to make an accurate prediction, but I'm at a loss with this one... Seems to me that if it's going by temps, then how can it just change after it's already picked up a thermal shift? I know you're new to temping, I'm not really asking you how it could change, just asking myself out loud in your post! This really sucks, though, since now I'm supposedly only 3DPO--the TWW is bad enough without having it extended! I just want AF to show up early now to get on with the next cycle

    Still figuring out personals, so will be right back...

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    Jen, af isn't going to show up!! I've banned her for all of us. Yes. I'm just. That. Good.
    :P

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    WTH-- Oh, hon, you really are such a selfless person for offering congrats to tina while you're so down about your own situation! You're an inspiration! Aren't there some meds your dr. can give you that will increase your chances? Just seems like with as advanced as we are technologically, there has to be something that they can do for you! I'm for a miracle for you. Sending bucket loads of



    Van--Your chart is almost as confusing as mine! Where's your coverline???


    pbstar--Don't worry about your SIL, if she has any sense at all she would realize how hard this is for you right now! Your heart is healing, and you have to do what's right for you, and nobody should expect any more from you! And as long as DH is on your side, the rest doesn't matter anyway! Big for you!


    megsmum--Here's hoping the rest of your flies by!

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    Part 2--


    Krystie--I thought Signs was a great movie! Have you seen Scary Movie (I think part 3?) where they poke fun at it? If not, you've got to check it out, it's hilarious! Would be a great pick-me-up when you're feeling down. that DH left a glass of water out--but he should've left out at least 5--just for the effect! I'm glad you had a talk with your future --I don't think she'll be able to resist the bibs! Maybe you can bribe her with a trip to M.Mountain! (hint,hint!) So DH is going to be the newest member of our little thread? That's great, now I can work on getting him to bring you to M.M.!! Can't your DSS's become members so I can get them all amped up about M.M., then they'll bug you and DH so much, you'll have to come out here just to shut them up! Sounds like a plan to me!


    jenushka--So glad you're still lurking and cheering us all on!


    tutmae--Are you sure you're using a BD thermometer? I always O pretty early into my cycle, too. In fact, my fertile days usually begin between days 8-10. Makes for a nice, long LP! I can't wait to see your first coverline! It's very exciting! And the pain on your right side definitely sounds like O pain--so bring on the


    Easha--I'm like crazy for another high temp for you today! Good luck with POAS on Thursday! for you!


    chappas--Sorry to hear you're feeling so down! Here's a big to cheer you up! At least AF has left the building!! Good luck for this next cycle!

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    We've really gotta stop writing at the same time!!
    I hope I'm using a bd thermometer. I was told thatdigi thermometers are fine, and mine seems pretty darn accurate. I guess we'll find out soon.

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    Part 3--


    tina--So are you still waiting for Friday to get your BT's? "sigh" You'd think I was waiting for my own BT's, I feel so anxious about yours! Between you and joey I'm going to have premature gray hair!


    Angel B--I've noticed that everything you say comes right from the heart, that's why we love you! Lotsa for you!!


    Sandygirl--If you find that switch to turn off your mind, please tell me where it is so I can turn mine off!!


    Acria--Welcome back! Of course you're still on the list! Oh, and I found your pics in the photo gallery! I've added you to my favorites!


    smilanatu--OMG, every day of every month? I can't even comprehend that! I'll have to check on my other chart, because that one gave me the same O day as FF originally gave me, which was CD14. I'm going to scream if that one changes, too!!

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    Morning gurlies!

    mollycat...I have given AB (lol) the SAME talk

    Joey...*chanting* witch stay away witch stay away witch stay away witch stay away

    tina_k...YOU GO GURLIE!!!

    WTH... praying everything will be well for you and bub...you HAVE to remain positive AND believe everything will be okay...negative vibes are a no-no...like Angel Babies said to you...you have to talk to the tummy and let bub know how much you love him/her...it's hard to do when the odds are against you BUT you HAVE to!!! Praying for your miracle! P.S. I know a little something about the age bracket you're in as well

    pbstar...no one can understand how YOU feel until they've been where you are...don't feel guilty...you know your heart...

    KrystieLove...I can ALWAYS count on you for my morning smiles! As for DH getting a BB account...that = you having to fight for PC time...LOL

    jen...I am quickly losing faith in your FF chart...seems like every month it is wishy washy...maybe it just means you need to every day every month until PG...LOL

    Okay ladies I gots work to do...



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    Apr 2008
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    Oh, I just realised I haven't talked nearly anywhere enough about myself today! Sheesh! I'm slipping!DH and I are very very much on the same page when it comes to (poor thing even suffered through his bad case of the flu for the cause!!). Looks like I'm probably going to o in the next couple of days (early o-ing apparently isn't that uncommon). I just want to see that coverline and know that I am o-ing. I've been having these little pains on my right hand side for to days now, down low next to my hip bone. Could be gas? Maybe? But I'm going to assume it's o pain.

    Sorry for the rambling. A girlfriend just put up some pics of her little one on facebook and we were due around the same time, so rambling is better than moping.

    and for all!