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    Hi all



    Sorry I have been quiet. Just to update, my pregnancy was deemed non progressive and I had a curette on Wednesday so that the "products" could be sent away for chromosomal testing. I have decided to go on the pill for 3 months to give my body a break as well as to lose a bit of weight (my way, which is not really appropriate for TTC).

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    Oh Nic sweetie I am so very sorry to hear your news. Sending big hugs to you at this time.

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    Oh Nic i am so sorry to hear your news

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    Nic I am so very sorry, please know that I am thinking of you sweety :hugs:

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    Hi girls. Just a quick one tonight. In the middle of a run of 12 hour shifts so very long days. I just wanted to thank all of you for your ongoing support. AF arrived properly today so it is back on the clomid tomorrow.

    I'll be back soon to chat properly and do personals. Have a lovely weekend.

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    Nic, I'm so sorry, please know that I'm thinking of you. If there is anything I can do, please shout out.

    Michelle - Sorry to hear AF showed up Honey. This is your 3rd upcoming cycle on clomid isn't it? Lets hope that it's 3rd time lucky!!!!

    Big hello's to everybody. Hope you're all well and BFP's are just waiting to be announced!!!

    Love Jayne

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    Hi All,

    Just dropping in briefly to say hi and too let you know all that the whole ttc stuff has taken its toll on me of late and we have decided to take atleast a 3 month break, If it happens it happens but we are not going to "try" anymore and it feels good not to have that pressure on me anymore.
    I have joined a gym for 6 months and going to get myself in shape and hopefully a healthy baody and healthy outlook on life will help us to be parents again, but never fear this is not goodbye from me, i will still be here to provide support to everyone who has given me some, i would miss you guys way too much!
    Kazz, don't worry those beautiful booties are still under my pillow and will stay there until one day when i finally announce a BFP!
    Jayne, I have PM you matey!
    Well best be off to the shops, i need some gym clothes to wear tomorrow on my first day!!!

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    Oh Nic,

    I am so very very sorry, Words just wont help the pain that you must be going thru now. I pray that over time your heart will mend and that you will be able to go on and have a Miracle and share it with us all.

    I just dont understand why this happens so often to such wonderful people.

    Please accept my Deepest Sympathys and Know that you are in our thoughts.

    Love Nola

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    Hi Everyone,

    Nola, Its so wonderful to see your ticker progressing along so nicely.

    Pautiric, I am so sorry to hear of your loss you are in my thoughts.

    Michelle, Sorry that AF arrived in full swing....how are you feeling matey?

    Shellstar, GL with the gym, and i hope that the 3 month break brings you peace and that BFP that you are looking for. How better than to get one than without even trying for one GL.

    Tanya, I am really sorry that you had that message on your phone and also about losing your brother. How did you go with responding to your daughters Aunty?

    Kirsty, How are you and DH doing today? I am sorry to hear that he said these things to your councillor (i think that its great that you are both doing this btw). I really hope that you two can work through this issue. Maybe Stephen might feel better after he hears what the specialists have to say in September. Its a bloody hard road you are on (right now i cant think of one harder) but i know that you will get there and hold that screaming bubba in your arms, i have every faith in you and Stephen to get through this and make that dream come true. Hang in there matey and if you need me you know where i am.

    Amy, I understand that you want to wait for the private health insurance to kick in after what you have told us about your past public hassles and i know that 2 and a half months does sound like a long time (i know because thats about how long i have to wait aswell) but the time will be here before you know it. Hopefully we will both get a BFP on our first month and by then all these other lovely girls will already be in PAML waiting for us!

    Naomi, How are you doing? How are you feeling about your appointment tomorrow?

    Jayne, About the checking knickers thing...in Lucy's pregnancy i was a serial toilet paper checker LOL at myself. Everyone does that during the next pregnancy (and probably my next also) it is entirely normal but hang in there your scan will be here soon and you will see that beautiful heart beating away. Your daughter sounds too cute lol.

    Lisa, How are you doing? What happened with your spotting?

    To anyone else that i have forgotten sorry, hope everyone is well and catching all those sperms to get that egg!

    Lots of Love Sarah xx

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    Nic - I'm so terribly sorry to hear your news. You've had a seriously rough time of things matey. I hope you'll keep popping in here and let us know how you are going over the next few months as you once again approach your TTC journey.....

    Kirsty - I hope that Stephen changes the way he feels after speaking to the specialists in September too (roll on september!). You've had SO much to deal with - I never want to hear you apologise for sharing it with us, because if you didn't, how could we help? So I for one am glad that you've shared how you feel and I hope it is therapeutic for you too.

    Jayne - I agree with Sarah on the toilet paper checking - OMG, I was obsessed with Jacob and am once again.....

    Shellstar - you know what they say.....often when you 'stop' trying is when things start happening! I hope this is the case for you chook.

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    Hi girls, I just wanted to pop in to leave a couple of messages...

    Nic...I am so very sorry to hear that you have suffered another loss. Although I don't post in here at the moment, I do still read and I was really hoping for the best for you. Take care...

    Michelle...I am really sorry to hear that AF has turned up for you. I had everything crossed for you too. Still do...

    Kirsty...I think of you often and really hope that you and your DH can work everything out. Sending you a big hug.

    Sarah...hi! It's great to see you back on the boards. Talk to you soon!

    A big hello to everyone else also...best of luck to you all on your TTC journeys!

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    Morning Everyone,

    I haven't got much time for personals this morning, so it's going to be a quick one.

    Nic - I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.

    As for me, well i've been MIA since Thursday because my little brother and his wife had their first baby on Thursday night (first baby born in our side of the family, and second in hers) so i have spent heaps of time up at the hospital with them. My little nephew, Ryan, is soooo cute and even though i really wish it was me, i'm absolutely stoked for them.

    So thats my news at the moment and i'll catch up will you all later on....i've got a baby to cuddle!!!

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    Hi Girls,

    Well Im definatley not pg.
    Dr has said to put a hold on ttc for atleast 1 month, just so my body can be normal for one month iykwim, this is what the letter from the Ultrasound said

    There is a history of possible recent miscarriage.

    Transabdominal and Transvaginal scanning was performed. The uterus is normal in size and midline in position. There is a very small amount of free fluid within the endometrium in the lower uterine segmant on transvaginal views. The endometrium in the fundus and body of the uterus appears normal. There is no eveidence of gestation sac. No other abnormalities are apparent. Both ovaries were demonstrated and were normal with mutliple follicles present on both sides there were no abnormal adnexal masses and there was no free fluid in the pelvis.

    What does free fluid mean?

    I have never seen a scan of my ovaries etc before, it was rather interesting, and the Dr was really really sweet about everything, said im not a (cant think of word he used) person who can get pg but cant keep it (miscarry all time).
    He told me next time i get a +on a hpt no matter how faint to go and get checked out asap, so we dont have to go through this everytime.

    From Saturday, ive had pains in my ovaries mostly on one side, but am getting it both sides, im know af is on her way, you know when you just "know"! so i have to wait so long before ttcing again! well it seems a long time, i have to get af two more times before we can try again! once af comes this time around, im going to temp and chart etc, so then i know what goes on with my body, without the pressure of ttc, which is good for us.

    Nic - im so sorry to hear of your loss sweet, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Big hugs to you.

    Shan - Congratulations on your nephew, although sometimes we envy those around us who have just found out about being pg, or have just given birth, while we still are ttcing, to special people in our lives that it happens to we couldnt be more happier for them as if it was our own. iykwim, one day soon you will be cuddiling your own baby! Congratulations once again, you'll make an excellent Aunty!

    KAB - thanks for asking about me, im ok, plodding along nicely LOL, Im very grateful the nothing bad was found with the ultraound and that i CAN have a H&H 9 month pg!

    Shell - I hope your ttc break ends with a BFP, and that the gym will make you feel more confident within yourself, iykwim? GL with it all.

    Michelle71- Sorry AF arrived, big hugs to you. What long hours your doing, i hope you are taking care of yourself, making sure your eating right and sleeping ok.

    Jayne - im sooooooo excited for you lol!!!!! Im hoping that we can all join you so very soon, grow Jessicas sibiling grow!!!

    a big hello to everyone else

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    OH I am so glad that everything is ok Naomi, I am not sure what 'free fluid' means tho sorry hopefully one of the other girs will know what it means, but sounds like you had good news and that this new dr is good for being so thorough so WTG,

    Michelle dido to what Naomi said I hope you are looking after yourself with doing such long hours, and sorry that af showed her ugly self this month.

    Shan congrats on your little nephew give him a cuddle from us too

    Sarah Deffinately I too hope we get a BFP together and can go over and join the rest of these wonderfull girls in the paml thread.

    Tanya how horrible, I was at a family bbq about a month ago and my SIL mum came up and rubed my belly and said I cant wait for this one to grace us with its beautifull presance, and her face just fell when I told her the poor thing ( she is such a lovely women I wish she were my MIL ) and I was so cross that no one had told her as she felt terrible and i didn't want her to feel that way at all,

    Kirsty It is great that you and your DH are seeing a councellor, altho it must be hard to hear things like that I guess sometimes its so much easier to tell someone whose practically a stranger than some one you are closest to I really hope you get it all worked out soon.

    Hi to anyone I have not mentioned its not that I have forgotten am feeling a little under the weather and just want to curl up on the lounge today and watch telly

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    Hello,

    Kirsty, to you.

    Shell, I am so sorry AF turned up. Yay for joining the gym. Well done. i joined one last week and i must say I totally love it. I still have everything crossed for you that you will end up getting a BFP very soon.

    Sarah, how are you going?? I am doing well thank you for asking (sorry I am a bit late in answering)

    Naomi, I am so sorry you aren't pg matey.

    Shan, congrats on your new little nephew.

    Nic, I am so so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Please accept my our deepest sympathy.

    Hello to everyone else.

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    Kazz - you booties are with me no matter where i go, from under my pillow at night to my bag when i go out, especially to the Dr's! They have helped me although i may not be announcing my BFP just yet they have helped me get answers i have been needing for so long! Thankyou.
    The other day Rick found them (he didnt know i had them) under his pillow and when i told him they must of fallen out of my pillow (as we had a pillow fight not long before), he laughed and said i thought you had them under my pillow and it was some Vudoo thing you had going on LOL, he was quite relieved to what the were actually for!

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    Hello Ladies,

    Shell - I will PM you my love, but good on you for taking the time up if TTC was winding you up a bit too much. You will get all toned up and even more sexy and ravish DH all the time and next thing you know you'll be staring at two pink lines on a HPT!!!!

    Naomi - I'm so glad to hear that your results were pretty good. Not really sure what is meant about the fluid thing but it's good that everything appears normal and they didn't find a reason as to why you might have future troubles, so that's very reassuring. LOL at the booties! GL with keeping your hands off your man at the next O time!

    Shan - Congratulations to you on being an aunty. You sound like a godsend for your SIL at the hospital. Listen to you 'I have a baby to cuddle'. How adorable!! GL for you with your next cycle too!

    Melinda - *Big groans* at toilet paper checking becoming a ritual. I just can't help myself. I was hoping that you'd tell me it wears off!

    Kirsty - I'm really sorry to hear what happened at the cousellors. It makes it even harder because you didn't know it was coming and then there it is out in the open without any warning. Maybe it's just something that flew out of his mouth and perhaps it's his fear more than anything talking. Keep opening up the communication lines so that he feels like he can be totally upfront with you & vice versa. Perhaps you can point out to him that the OB appt proved that there is no medical or scientific evidence to say that things won't turn out the next time around?

    Sarah - You betcha, I'm saving seats in PAML like you wouldn't believe. One lady has vacated and there are a couple more close by so I've got my hands over all of them for all you ladies over there!!!!!!!!!

    ME - Well, I'm 6w1d today and I'm just waiting for something to go wrong. This is the week where I lost the last angel. I'm sooooooooooo sick though, so I'm assuming that's a reassuring sign. I want to curl up on my bed and just feel sorry for myself but that's impossile when I have a toddler running around a mile a minute. My first scan is next Tuesday. I'm really excited on one hand, but on the other I don't think I'll get to it and then I think, if I do get to the scan and get piccies and then lose it between my then & my 12 week scan it will be even harder because I have seen it. It's official. I am CRAZY! I have become a toilet paper FREAK!!!!! I really can't help it. Even during the night ( I had to get up 3 times last night to pee ) I have to turn the light on so I can check to see if there is blood.

    Jayne

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    Jayne.. I am so happy for you!!! Please don't feel like things aren't gonna work out cause in my herat of hearts they are so so promising and you should now take time to enjoy the fact that you are gonna be a mummy again..WOOHOO!!! That is something to be excited about! I am so looking foreward to following your journey... I can't wait!!

    Kazz..How are you my sweets??How are those gorgeous men of yours?? Sounds like things are running ok your end, but I bet you sure are busy..lol..Glad to see you popping in..


    Nic...Sweetie I am so very, very sorry for your loss...words cannot begin to express how this must be affecting you and your DH...wish there was something I could do..I hope you get the answers and the miracle you so surely deserve.... Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers...

    Sorry girls, have so much to catch up on...and I don't know where tio start..bare with me please..

    Jan xx

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