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    Belle - wish you werent in here at all hun... all the best with getting back on track


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    Goldilocks, sweetie - so sorry to see you lost your precious one as well:-( Big hugs to you!
    I ended up having a D&C about 3weeks ago now. Hopefully neither of us will have to go through that again,fingers x'ed! Yes, I hope too that we'll be bellybuddies again:-)
    Funny how we both post on the same day

    I know I had said that we'll be trying this cycle but DH actually mentioned last night to maybe give my body more of a chance to recover and the fact that both the last m/c's were conceived during the 1st cycle so - maybe we're jinxed with it..
    Who knows, I know there isn't a lot of logic to it but we're going with it anyway. So second cycle we'll try again then. The 1st mc it was the 2nd cycle and with our beautiful little girl she was conceived on the third cycle! Third time lucky, hey


    Thanks everyone for your welcome and I look forward to getting to know you all as we support each other through our journeys to mummyhood (again )

    Anyone on a TWW?

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    Thanks for the warm welcome girls!

    Shan, YAY for AF arriving! Are you going to the doc to find out why you had such a long cycle this time? Don't you wish the witch would just behave! GRRRRRRR

    Tanya, I hope things get sorted out in your family very soon. Sorry AF is being nasty to you too...hope she disappears soon and doesn't come back for 9 months!

    Keen, thanks so much honey. I wish I wasn't here either but at least I'm here with a lovely bunch of ladies I hope everyone will be graduating to PAML very soon!

    Hind/Carol, I'm sorry to hear that you ended up having a D&C...I know that you were going to wait for nature to take it's course. I wasn't given that option - I had a 8-9 week sac that wasn't going anywhere, my body really didn't want to let it go! It's hard to know about when to TTC again. Some women fall pg again very soon and have successful pgs, and others take a little longer. It sounds like you'll have no problem falling pg again!

    Lisa I'll be thinking of you on Saturday, honey. I think it's wonderful that you and your DH are doing something special to remember your angel. I know they'll be watching over you, as always...

    As for me, well I did a HPT this morning to see if it was still showing a BFP...I started jumping for joy when nothing came up...but when I checked back after about 5 mins there was a very faint line and even DH could see it. Damn it! I was hoping all the hCG would be out of my system by now. Kinda sad to see a BFP when I know I'm no longer pg But on a happier note, the bleeding has almost stopped! YAY

    I'm off to Brisvegas with DH for three days so I won't be back on until next week. It's his 30th birthday so I'm taking him away for a romantic weekend I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend!!!

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    Hi ladies,

    Tanya, hope things settle at home soon darl. And hope af settles for you too, sounds like she is giving you a bad run!

    Belle - have a great trip, im sure your dh will love his romantic escape! Hope your levels drop soon sweety.

    Caorl, as long as you feel ready to start trying on the 2nd cycle then go for it. I hope that dh's theory works.

    Shan, so glad you are able to know get back on track and figure out what your cycles are doing. I really hope this is 'your' cycle sweety.

    Michelle - where is your cycle at matey? Should you be o'ing around now?

    Me - well af left the building a few days ago, so dh has been really eager to bd, and wants to do it every night! Im not sure if its in hope of catching the eggy or for his own personal pleasure, either way, I dont mind and the more chances of catching the eggy, the better!!

    I feel pretty sad today, my SIL told me that her sister who is just under 6 months pg has found out that her baby has water in the brain (there is a technical term, cant remember it though), and that bubs will have to have a drain inserted into his brain in utero and then further surgery when he is delivered. Dr's currently checking the severity and to determine whether any brain damage has occured. Its not a good situation. I really feel for her and all of a sudden my problems seem to pale into insignificance. Oh why is this life so cruel sometimes??

    Amym - how are you doing?

    Sarah - hope you are well.

    Well hope you all have a great day and will be back later for more personals,
    Sorry if I missed anyone...

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    Oh Lisa....that's just terrible. How scary for your SIL's sister....I don't know if i'll get much of a chance to get back on here before Saturday, but i just wanted to you to know that i'll be thinking about you and your angel and your DH too!. Big hugs to you sweety...

    Belle - nup, not going to the docs...just taking a break for a bit, but if this cycles does something similar, i might think about it. Have fun in Brisbane...and spoil that DH of yours rotton...

    Hi to everyone else and that you all have a great day.

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    Shan, thank you my sweet. Your cyber hugs will be with us on saturday and they are very much appreciated

    Hope your next cycle is back to some sort of normal - there is some sort of tea you can drink to try and help regulate your cycle (i cant remember the name?).

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    Hellooo Ladies,

    I have missed you alllll!!! But im working my butt of at the gym and by some chance a miracle will happen for us in a couple of months time.

    We stopped TTC right about the time i was to O and did away with the temping and all so i have know idea as to when i O'd and im now on cd 32 and thats very strange, but had a faint + on a fortel ultra yesterday morning ( i don't know why i buy the darn things as i have often had a faint + on them only to get AF) but today used crystal clear and it was a BFN, I think the vitex i have been taking has made my cycles a bit longer, but i must admit when i started to think maybe.......i was bit excited, but never mind as we weren't trying anyway, but hopefully af will show soon as my (.)(.) are like lead balloons!!!
    Well thats me in a nutshell, hope you are all doing well and i will try to get on tomorrow and do personals!!!

    Love shell

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    Hi girls,

    WOW so much to catch up on so sorry if i forget anyone at all,

    Welcome to Belle and Carol I hope to get to know you both well and hope that you get the miricle you are wishing for soon,

    I hope you ahve a great weekend Belle it sounds just divine,

    Shan I am so glad that af has shown up for you, and hopefully your body will get back to normal now,

    Tanya I hope everything works itself out peacefully for you and your family, and sorry to hear that af is being nasty this month

    Lisa that is terrible about your friends baby, I am so sorry to hear that I hope the severity of it all is not to bad, and I wish you all the best for saturday sweety, what you said about feeling happy about being able to do something for your cacy that didn't make it makes perfect sence {{HUGS}}

    Michelle How are you? I love cuddling babies too even though it does feel a littel upsetting, I so hope you get your miricle really soon sweety.

    oh and thanks for the update on Jayne its a releif to know everything is going well for her

    Hi shell

    Sarah thank you for saying that, its really sweet of you

    Well me hmmmmmm I am feeling a little upset atm cause I think we are going to put ttc back a bit more not to sure though, My SIL and BIL have been secretly trying ( we are the only family members that know ) for about 4 months now and they have had no luck she has a great dr who is looking after her well and wnats her to have an ultralound done as she suspects that from SIL past ( a professional ballerina ) that she has damaged her uterus etc and may have to look at other avenues of ttc and I just feel so heartbroken for them, and cant imagine ttc and falling pg then announcing it to them it would just not feel right at all and how could I feel excited and happy about everything when she will be feeling so devestated, so atm we are just seeing what happens as her specialist appointment is not untill september so they will not really know till then either altho she siad to me that she really wants to prove them all wrong and be pg before her appointment and I really hope she does just that.
    AF is giving me a little greif this month have had a bit of pain etc... so hope it calms down soon.

    ok will BBL to check in on you all
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    Hello Lovely Ladies,

    I must give you all a HUGE apology for being so scarce lately. I haven't wanted to pop in here and whinge about how sick I was feeling and I haven't really been in the PAML forum much either.

    Well, I had my normal booked dating scan on Tuesday and that was such a relief. Bubs is there and heartbeat fluttering away like mad and had totally shifted to the other side of my uterus. As soon as I saw that, I said, can you please check for twins. When she asked why and I explained that bubs was on the other side two days ago she said it isn't really that common for them to move so far and she did a thorough check and thank lordy there is only one!!! I was worried about it moving, and she said that was a good sign after the m/c it means bubs is active and healthy & happy. I'm actually due now on the 16 March 2007 and originally I thought that can't be true, but then I remembered I got the +ve OPK on CD16 so that means I O'd between CD17-18 so the maths are spot on! Yay!We have told Jessica that mummy has a baby in her tummy so that she stops climbing all over my tummy and now she is pulling up her own top and saying 'Baby in there, hiding'. Very cute. Icy poles are now my staple diet and salt & vinegar chippies. I must start eating better but I make a whole plate of beautiful vegies, take one look at them and have to lie down! LOL. From about 2pm, my day goes downhill but I find that a warm bath or a hot shower does wonders so Jessica & I have been having spa baths for an hour in the afternoons and drink a hot milo together! LOL.

    Massive thank you's to everybody who has asked about me, I didn't think you would all be so worried! Promise not to leave you all hanging like that again!!!

    Michelle - You really are one total cherub. Sounds like you've got a special attachment to that little boy and I think that's beautiful.

    Lisa - Sending you masses of hugs for Saturday. Let us know what you plan to do and we'll all be thinking of you. Sounds like it's hurting DH more than he is letting on. It's nice to know it's not always about 'our' loss.

    Tanya - Sorry to hear about the family turmoil that's going on. Don't ya gotta love families? Lets hope it all cools down very quickly and quietly.

    Warm welcomes to Hindoly & Goldilocks. Such a shame to have you here (YKWIM), but take heart in the fact that these women are the strongest that you will find and they are so compassionate and supportive that you'll wonder what you ever did without them.

    Shell - Hmmm, you're sounding a little bit suss this month Miss Aerobics. Lets see what the next few days brings!!!!

    Belle - You lucky thing with your dirrrrrty couple of days coming up! What a fantastic present! Enjoy yourselves. Looks like you won't have to pack many clothes. LOL!

    Shan - BOL with this upcoming cycle. Are you a 92 day girl? I thought I was whacked being 42!!!!

    Over in the PAML, there are at least 3 ladies who will be vacating in the next couple of days *standing behind chairs ready to pounce and save them*. So, I'm going to get those chairs first and have them saved. I have my pen & paper ready, so who's names should I be writing on them?

    Speak to you all sooon!

    Love Jayne xox

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    Jayne - hello matey just a quick one - I will bbl for more personals, but just wanted to say that your list better have Michelle's name right up top!! And then maybe me

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    I'd love it to be mine Miss Jayne!!! Good to see you back in the land of the living. And of course we were worried!! You're a very special lady.

    Yes Lisa (you are very clever!!) O is just around the corner so I am hoping to see DH tomorrow (on nights tonight) for some *special* time

    Hi Tanya, Amy, Carol, Belle, Shan, Sarah and yay Michelle (missed having you pop in too). Off to work so I will catch up with you all later.

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    Oooooo Lisa!!! We posted together!! 2 Michelle's and a Lisa (quickly followed by everyone else) would be great. We need a few more positives around here.

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    Afternoon Girls,

    Lisa, How are you doing?? I have been thinking about you and your DH at this very difficult time. I think that it is beautiful what you are doing for your angel on your EDD and it will be a special day for you two with your angel looking down on you knowing how great your love is.

    Carol, i am really sorry to hear about your 3 babies, I hope that your stay here is a very short one with that BFP coming to you very soon.

    Belle, I am really sorry to hear about the loss of your baby, i hope that you have a fantastic weekend away and spoil both of yourselves! I hope that your body sorts itself soon and before you know it that BFP will be here. It is scary starting this journey again but we are all here for you.

    Shan, Its great that AF has arrived (that does feel weird saying that), i hope that your body gets sorted and all ready for that BFP this month.

    Tanya, how are you feeling today? I hope that AF has eased off a bit for you and also that your family drama's will sort themselves soon too.

    Shell, What a bummer about the mixed results...we take these tests so we know whats going on rather than confusing the situation further. Sounds like you are doing really well that the gym. I do Tae Bo on dvd at home everyday and i have lost 11 kgs since Lucy was born (she is 17 months old) well i guess its less than that because i had a CS so i wouldnt have been kickboxing the day after she was born lol. I hope that AF shows for you soon if thats what you want.

    Amy, I am terribly sorry to hear about your SIL's sister, thats terrible, its hard to understand why life has to be so hard sometimes isnt it. I cant imagine what they are going through. I understand why you want to put TTC off because of your family but hopefully by the time your time comes around they will have fallen pregnant and you can have the all clear.

    Jayne, Thats great about your scan! Sounds like things are ticking on along as they should and it sounds lovely about the baths and milo!

    Michelle, Naomi, Kirsty and everyone else - How are you all doing?

    AF arrived today (well started to anyway) so i guess i am officially TTC - YAY i can feel the pressure already lol. Another one of my friends in my mothers group announced her pregnancy yesterday, she is 13 weeks and i am really happy for her because she has had two miscarriages before. Its seems as though i have lots of prego people surrounding me so hopefully BB follows suit and we pump out some BFP's soon to fill up those seats jayne was talking about.......bring on 32 days so i can test (can you tell i am excited lol).

    Love Sarah xx

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    Jayne....i'll have one of those chairs please, but seeing i'm not actively TTC at the moment, and it's a long shot that i would get a BFP anyway, i'll give it up for anybody else in here...and that means all of you..hehehe. Also Jayne..i'm not usually a 92 day girl, so don't know what was going on there....

    Thanks everyone for their congratulations for me getting AF....and now that i know i definately not PG, i can have a few drinks at this reunion i'm going to on the weekend...hhhmmm, i might even get drunk..lol

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    Shell - I hope like mad that you keep going that way.... fingers crossed for another +

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    morning everyone,

    Shan that sounds like a good plan go out and let your hair down for a night, its just what the doctor ordered LOL

    Sarah oooohhh good luck sweety I hope this cycle brings you a BFP JI am sending heaps of *babydust*, and that is great about your friend sending her heaps of *stickyvibes*,
    yeah it is hard to be excited about ttc when someone so close to us is having so much trouble, I really hope not only for our ttc but for them that they are successfull in proving the doctors wrong I might give her a few tips on signs ov Oing that I have learnt from here because I know that I had no idea about when you ovulate etc although I think as a bit of a sheild SIL is saying that they are not fully trying hard atm but some tips might help.

    Shell I hope you get a BFP that would be great, I hate those bloomin tests we have a love hate relationship so I hope the first one was right good luck sweet.

    Jayne Great to hear that everything is doing so well, a spa and a milo sounds just divine mmmmmmm so relaxing.

    Hi Keen how are you going?

    Hi to everyone else hope you have a great day

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    hello my sweet friends,

    Shell - oh hun I really hope you get a nice dark second line!! Keep us posted missy. Ive got everything crossed for you.

    Sarah - welcome officially to your new ttc journey, hope you score a nice bfp soon!!

    Michelle - hope you manage to get that special time with dh and catch that eggy, I really want to see you graduate to PAML!!

    Shan - I really hope that you get a suprise bfp next month. Have a great time at the reunion, and the one good thing about having af is being able to have a few drinks. I managed a whole bottle of wine last weekend while I had af.

    Amy - so sorry to hear about your SIL's troubles atm, I hope that the drs give her some good news and that she gets pg really soon. You are so sweet thinking of her before your own ttc journey. I hope you can both be pg together, that would be very special.

    Carol - how are you doing sweets?

    Tanya - hoping af has settled herself down and not giving you too much trouble! How are things with your family? Hoping that the family issues have been resolved now.

    Jayne - im so happy for you my dear, little bubba is here to stay, and dont you forget that!! My best friend is due 31st of March, so there will be two little special bubba's born in March!! Yipee cant wait!!

    Big hello to everyone else Kirsty, Naomi, Keen (how are you doing?) and any else I may have forgotten

    Me - well its edd tomorrow. Im feeling good today, I think all the crying etc over the last two weeks has helped me deal with it a little better. dh and i still going to do something special. I had my friends hens night at my place just after my loss and we had a spiritual (goddess) party, well anyway the woman who was hosting the party she and I had this great connection and we talked for ages, she had over 5 m/c's. I emailed her and she does special ceremonies for anyone who has suffered a pg loss and she has offered to come over tomorrow morning and do a little ceremony at home for us. And she also gave me some DIY tips if I wanted to do it myself. Will talk to dh and decide whether to do her ceremony or go with our original plan.

    Thanks to all for your support and kind words during this difficult time for dh and I. I hope you are all blessed with pg bellies very soon and we can all get off the ttc train!

    Take care and have a great day!!

    Love to all,
    Lisa

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    Whatever you decide to do Lisa will be very special.....Enjoy your day though, and know that your little angel is with you always, i know mine is!. I'll be thinking of you hun..xxx

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