Sharon - I know how you feel about TTC and then actually falling pregnant. I have started having flash backs about going to the loo and seeing spotting. I just remember the emotions that I went through each time I went to the loo. Atm I am doing some relaxation type visualisation each day. I pretend that I can see my system working properly and I also visualise a baby growing inside me. I know this sounds weird but I am trying to fake it till I make it. Maybe you should try and imagine a positive pregnancy and this may help your anxiety.

Stickey Vibes required from everyone: A friend of mine is 7wks atm and she started spotting on Saturday. She had her first m/c in December. Both times I knew she was pregnant before she told me. I had the feeling about 2wks ago that she was pregnant again and my MIL called her mum to ask if she was pregnant. Her mum said she was but had started to spot and she is devastated. Poor girl I so know how she feels. I really have my fingers crossed for her and I know when everyone reads it they'll send some good vibes to her. ps she has a blood type issue so I hope the docs will sort it out.

Oh yeah I forgot to mention this before. My doc today told me that a Luteal Phase cannot varry in length and all humans should have a 14day LP. I tried telling him that my LP is 9 to 12 days and he told me that he had never heard of this before. Am I nuts or is my doc not informed enough?