Oh Jane, that is so annoying! I hate it when you just can't figure out what your body is doing, esp after a m/c when you just want things to go back to normal again. And I know what you mean about hearing of others pgs and being happy for them but sad for you. It's hard not to have those feelings. You will O - your body is just still sorting itself out, so try not to despair!

Hi Loubell - welcome! I hope it all works out for you and soon!!

Hi Salt - glad to hear you haven't been abducted by aliens! Grr to AF not arriving yet!

BekZ - the relaxation thing sounds like a really good idea. My psych has given me a relaxation CD I have to listen to every day to try and learn to relax more, so I think it's a good idea. What are your hormone tests for? So sorry to hear about your friend, it just breaks my heart everytime I hear a story like that. I really hope it turns out ok for her. My dr said your LP shoud be 14 days too, but mine seems to be shorter. I think ideally it should be 14 days, but it varies from 10 to 16 days, so not sure what your dr is on about there.

Sharon - I totally understand the fear of being pg again. It's like you can't win - we all want so badly to be pg again, but are scared of being there! I guess that's why BB is so good - so many girls to support each other to get through pg next time.

Still no AF here. I now have creamy CM. Does anyone get that before AF? I keep thinking it is AF, but it's not, and I don't think I usually get it before AF.