thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 2007 #2

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2006
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    Congrats Bekz & Tinsel - woo hoo - enjoy the next 9 months !!
    Bun - I really feel for you at the moment - you have been through a lot. I often think "isn't it enought that I have lost a baby, why do I have to wait so long to conceive another...." & thoughts along those lines. We just have to have faith in the big guy upstairs & that he will deliver us our bubba's when the time is right. Maybe you could look into some kind of relaxation/ meditation that you & DH could try together. Also, have you tried the alternative therapies route? Anything to help feel you are getting that bit closer to conceiving a H&H bub. Don't put pressure on yourself though, do what feels right for you & make sure you keep communicating with DH as we often forget how hard this is on them as well....
    Hope all you other lovelies are fine & plodding along nicely. Who is going to be the lucky no. 3 announcing their BFP? Good luck to all!!!

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    Nov 2006
    Hassall Grove, NSW
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    Bun I think if you feel like you want to ttc then go for it, and maybe do what mummyto1 suggested and both of you do some relaxation together.
    saltprincess I never actually wanted a xmas baby, but if i'm due on xmas day I'm not gonna say no. As for not being able to get in to see your Ob until after you O would totally suck, I know that after my D&C I was sent out my bill and an appointment date for my checkup so I didn't have to ring and make the appt myself, could you ask them to put you onto standby so that if someone cancels you can have their spot?
    Herbie I think 3 days in a row of BD is definitely too much, dh and I have been together nearly 20 years and if it wasn't for ttc we where lucky to dtd once a month LOL as for the products from Lullaby Conceptions they usually get posted out the same day your payment goes through, so if you pay by credit card they will be posted that day and it all depends on how long it takes for mail to get to you from Sydney.
    *las* no need to apologise for missing anyone in the personals I know I still do (unintentionally) and I have been a BB member since August 06 (?) and you will probably find that the reason your pg friends aren't calling you is because they don't know what to say to you, maybe they are waiting until you call them when you feel you are ready and able to cope with seeing them pg :hugs:
    jenjams I find downstairs temping much more consistent.
    Tonners the only way we managed 3 nights in a row is because I made dh pace himself, he literally told him not wear himself out on Friday as he still had another 2 nights to go

    Have a great day everyone, BBL for another chat.