starr84 - welcome and i'm so sorry for your loss. it's great on here. it keeps me sane. GL for this month

possummagic - thanks and yes i guess i just have to "wait and see".

garfield - welcome and hope your luck turns around very soon. FX for you.

forshelby - i've decided to call my GP or OB tomorrow (which one should i call??) after i see what happens tonight (it being sunday and all). nothing seems to be happening, no bleeding, no cramping... all very confusing... just that one big clot this morning. i'm thinking maybe it was just a scare (same as last week... hope this doesn't happen every week?!?!) but then i tell myself off for getting my hopes up.... agh so annoying.... i figure i can get a BT or a scan done in the next few days and see what's up. i POAS this arvo and the line was as quick/dark as it was 5 days ago... not sure if that means anything. i really hope everything is ok. FX for my little one.