TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[smilanatu]

maybebaby...the ladies here a wonderful support! I am sorry for your loss but you couldn't have found a better place to share.

AJC & plc1805...thanks for your well wishes

mollycat...goodluck to you and happy early birthday...maybe we''ll both have great memories of this years birthday!

jen805...looks like we are BDing partners......goodluck to you gurlie!

[Canary]

Hello Everyone,

I just wanted to say a big thank you to Mollycat, Jen, Magda, plc1805, JMG and AJC (I hope I havent missed anyone). What a wonderful place this is! I was feeling really low, and just 'yuk', then I logged in yesterday and read all of your posts and came away feeling 10 times better. AF arrived in full today and I feel a bit more optomistic, cos now I am on CD1 and not CD33, waiting for AF!
I am GUTTED that I am going away for 3 nights this month- and they are 3 of my most fertile days (CD13 to 15, I usually ovulate on CD19, but cover all bases in case I O on CDs14-19). OK, I need a plan. I'm off to a conference on CD13, I'll have to BD in the morning before I go, and can BD on CD15 when I get back! Isn't it funny how days are no longer mon, tue, weds, but CD1,2,3 etc...?!

AJC- I am totally with you on the 'glimmer of hope during 2WW' concept. I posted something similar a few days ago, although I did say that I quite LIKED being in the 2ww for that reason, and I think that made me sound a little mad! I'll be thinking of you tomorrow (11th), hun, I hope it goes OK

Nickster- Oh, I read your post with my heart in my mouth, but am so glad that junior is OK. I can imagine the things that must have been going through your head at the time. Hope that it is plain sailing from now on. Keep us updated.

Betty- Horray!!! What great news!!! Now you are CD ? 2- ready to ttc really soon!!

Barbara- Hi! We havent heard from you in a while. Are you doing OK?

SeenaBeena- I so agree. Waiting is sh*t.

MaybeBaby So sorry to hear of your recent loss. This website is wonderful, I am sure that you will find plenty of supportive ladies here. Hope the op goes OK. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

Just a quick question before I go. How many days before O are we 'supposed' to be fertile for? I think that I read that it was about 3 or 4.
Thanks everyone, byee!!

[seenabeena]

Sasha I am so so sorry to hear of you recent loss. Like the other girls have said make sure you take some time for yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Thinking of you

[maybe baby]

Thanks everyone. Its nice to have a place where you can express your frustration and sadness. My DH is wonderful but like all men is a problem fixer and this is not something he can fix! I have already made an appointment with a F/S - my OB doubles as a F/s and I had a lot of tests when I saw him (before DD) - although funnily enough I was pg a the time! I have copied the list of tests in one of the stickies and will take it with me.

At 36, I don't have time to waste and will be as pushy as hell about making sure my next pregnancy sticks!

In the meantime, I wait for AF and go back to temping. Make sure DH takes his zinc and try and decide about VitB6 - My AF did not return after I had finished BBing DD (in November) and then my LH was a bit short. VitB6 made it longer and I conceived in February but I suspect progesterone levels - I was on tablet supplements but as far as I know that would have just delayed the inevitable.

My OB is testing after the D&C so might get the answers

[AJC]

welcome maybebaby - I hope your stay in here is short and that you get your BFP very soon.

[Katiegirl]

Hi Maybebaby - I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you take the time to look after yourself. I am glad you found this group of women, as they will be able to support and comfort you on both the good and the bad days.

Hi to everyone else - I think I have probably missed some congrats on BFPS - so if I have a big Congratulations and

Things are ticking along for me - will be 10 weeks tomorrow, but still as anxious as ever. I have a scan next Wed so will be glad to have that for some reassurance. My mind plays tricks on me, and I start to feel anxious or upset when really I know that I am just inventing things. So I hope this one is a sticky.

To all of you on the 2WW may it be successful. To those who aren't, I hope this is your cycle.

I know it must be hard to see all these BFPs (even though we are all happy for each other) but please do know that all of your times will come. We need to spread them out a bit so we can prolong the joy of seeing more and more of this group have the babies we all deserve and desire.

Take care ladies.

[nicksterUK]

especially for Tina!! and BettyB (Bring it on 'O'!!! xxx) and all who are gonna get 'fertile-jiggy' this month, and for Emmy-Lou (do it do it do it! Got everything crossed xx) and those TWW as well- so that's all of you covered in layers of babydust, all sparkling and looking GOOD!!

all!!
As Katiegirl and I, and the other BFP's, all appreciate that it's difficult or annoying sometimes that we still mooch around here for a bit longer maybe, but we SSssooooooooooooo want you lot in the pg boat with us. I'm willing it and always have everything crossed for you ladies. And you know that I still need you a bit, but know you don't think I'm being selfish or inconsiderate- thank you thank you thank you xxxx

Anyhow, my bleeding has stopped, finally, and we still had a heartbeat yesterday so I am having a tentative sigh of relief today... see how we go from here :-)

Angel- hey buddy, miss ya heaps and hope you don't stay out of the loop too long xxx thinkin' of ya