TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[seenabeena]

Sasha I am so so sorry to hear of you recent loss. Like the other girls have said make sure you take some time for yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Thinking of you

[maybe baby]

Thanks everyone. Its nice to have a place where you can express your frustration and sadness. My DH is wonderful but like all men is a problem fixer and this is not something he can fix! I have already made an appointment with a F/S - my OB doubles as a F/s and I had a lot of tests when I saw him (before DD) - although funnily enough I was pg a the time! I have copied the list of tests in one of the stickies and will take it with me.

At 36, I don't have time to waste and will be as pushy as hell about making sure my next pregnancy sticks!

In the meantime, I wait for AF and go back to temping. Make sure DH takes his zinc and try and decide about VitB6 - My AF did not return after I had finished BBing DD (in November) and then my LH was a bit short. VitB6 made it longer and I conceived in February but I suspect progesterone levels - I was on tablet supplements but as far as I know that would have just delayed the inevitable.

My OB is testing after the D&C so might get the answers

[AJC]

welcome maybebaby - I hope your stay in here is short and that you get your BFP very soon.

[Katiegirl]

Hi Maybebaby - I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you take the time to look after yourself. I am glad you found this group of women, as they will be able to support and comfort you on both the good and the bad days.

Hi to everyone else - I think I have probably missed some congrats on BFPS - so if I have a big Congratulations and

Things are ticking along for me - will be 10 weeks tomorrow, but still as anxious as ever. I have a scan next Wed so will be glad to have that for some reassurance. My mind plays tricks on me, and I start to feel anxious or upset when really I know that I am just inventing things. So I hope this one is a sticky.

To all of you on the 2WW may it be successful. To those who aren't, I hope this is your cycle.

I know it must be hard to see all these BFPs (even though we are all happy for each other) but please do know that all of your times will come. We need to spread them out a bit so we can prolong the joy of seeing more and more of this group have the babies we all deserve and desire.

Take care ladies.