Hi Ladies,

I am new to this forum, I have just lost my baby December 30, and I think I would have gone mad if it was not for this website. I have not posted before, but just knowing that other women are going through exactly the same thing has been such a comfort. And to hear your words of encouragement to each other really helped me.

Magda - the same thing happened to me. I had very heavy bleeding on the day I lost my baby, not so much pain, well, nothing I could not take. It only lasted about 3-4 hours and then it was just spotting, so I thought it was all over. Then very light bleeding/spotting the next day and then the next day it was as if I have gotten my period. Regular period bleeding and cramps. I even called my doctor because I was concerned, but she told me it is normal. It lasted about a week.

Ladies, my doctor told me that for my "mental health" I should wait at least 3 months before trying again. But I feel that for my "mental health" I need to try again ASAP. Did anybody try right away? When can I expect O to appear? Normally I get it around day 20, will it be later now?