OH TinaK, I'm so sorry sweetie, big hug for you Just hang in there, I'm sure some babydust will come your way very soon!

bettyboop - One of my mottos in life is that I try not to judge people for their preferences and hopefully they wont judge me. We are all here bc we just want a baby and have had struggles with this, but is there really any harm in trying a couple of things in an attempt to get a baby of a particular sex the second time around? I feel as though it's a bit of generational problem, in our parents generation, they'd just keep having kids until they had one or two of each. With our generation and the cost of living these days, most of us will not be able to afford any more than two babies. I'm not going to apologise for the fact that I would really love to have a girl this time around, I've always wanted one. But my first preference will always be to have a healthy baby, no matter what the sex. Just a BFP right now would make me very happy!