TwoMums - i am so very very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I truly believe that they are in a better place and that one day we will see them again and it will be like a wonderful reunion (my own Dad passed away last year and it is this thought that keeps me going, otherwise i'd go insane thinking i'd never see him again after this earth place!). Please try to be good to yourself and allow as much time as you need to grieve for your Dad... and even though he is not here physically, i am sure he is with you in spirit and will help you and Kim through your journey.