Hi everyone,

Lee - I'm also envious of Bun - I bet she's having a great time. You are so right on the food thing - last night I had a bacon/egg/cheese roll for my dinner and I felt instantly better.

LizJessie - I think most of us can't help but tell people the first time we are pregnant but when it all goes wrong we wish we hadn't. Any pregnancy after that tends to be hidden until we feel we are at a "safe" stage.

Trying - I think you need to be true to your name and try to be positive. TTC is full of waiting. Waiting for AF to finish, waiting to O, waiting for two weeks, waiting a few days to test, waiting a couple of minutes looking for a second line on the test (seems like an eternity) waiting to see if AF is going to arrive, waiting to see doctors, waiting for BT's, waiting for ultrasounds, waiting for results, waiting in waiting lists for treatment..... it's just lots of waiting. Throughout all that waiting we need to keep our spirits as high as possible, and that's not always easy. I find posting here helps me with my waiting, I have my bad days but most of my days are really good. Don't stress too much about no EWCM - you can still get pregnant without it. I very rarely see any these days (I think with me it's an age thing) but I still got pg earlier in the year.

Shoegal - The problem with testing early is that is you get a negative you will keep doing more and more until you get a positive or get your AF - huge waste of money. If you do get an early positive then you will still keep testing each day as you will be worried that the positive is going to disappear and stress about how dark (or faint) it is and wonder if it is a chemical pregnancy. I have finally got to the point where I can wait to see if my AF goes late before testing & it's a really good place to be. I do have urges to test when I get "symptoms" but I've had so many of those now for no reason I know they mean nothing. I just think, no I'm going to wait until I go late and that's that.

Sweetpetite - I'm glad to hear you are eating properly again & feeling a little better. Have a great holiday.


CD13 for me so waiting to O now. Got lots of bedding in over the last few days and hope to be able to keep it up until I O but we are both so tired. We also have miss 4 for the weekend from tonight and she tends to make us even more tired, and our opportunities to BD are less as she comes in to our bed early in the mornings most mornings.