Satya- I am sorry I don't live closer as I would come with you for support. I am sorry your DF is being such a bonehead. Sometimes they (men-husbands-etc.) just are. I hope you are able to manage without him today. We are all thinking of you in this time of need. My DH once completely let me down when DD#2 was hospitalized - She was having trouble breathing when she had a virus. He was so focused on work for some reason he said things that made so sense "You can look after DD#1 in the hospital too" But he came to his senses too late to support me but before I smacked him.

Dawnee- I was mad for you- What a horrible few days. Bad enough to lose a pregnancy let alone deal with insensitive people and play hostess. I know how scary it is when DH says casually- "Maybe we shouldn't right now...." My DH has said that several times, but what he means is he doesn't want me to have to go through the loss again. I know if we could 'know' we would have a prefect pregnancy They wouldn't be so quick to say in passing "Maybe we shouldn't" Try to see his words as concern for you.