Satya honey, it's not a selfish post. You're having a tough time at the moment, and you're going through a stage where you have work out a new reality for yourself, it's not easy. It is perfectly understandable that there are going to be times when you need to cry, and really need to cocoon yourself and find calm, and comfort and hopefully, some peace.

Post 'selfish posts' anytime. We're all here to support one another, especially at times like this. Hugs to you.

Lisa xx