Beaksie - I'm 41 and although my mum went through it far older than that her sister started in her late 20's and had to have treatment to have my cousin. I'm probably just over reacting. Because of the weird bleeding I've had this cycle I will probably still have the lap but only if it can be at a convenient time for work... otherwise I might have to put it on hold for now. You need to BD before you ovulate so if you see EWCM then you'd better get busy.

Kiwigirl - the last time I was pg I so thought AF was coming so you never know. I'd had a number of symptoms but in the last couple of days I had less and then got that feeling that she was coming but she didn't. I so hope that's whats happening to you.

I was starting to feel completely hopeless about the chance of ever TTCing again but then I read of a 46 yo woman having a m/c. Maybe there will still be time for me to find a new man and give it another go.