my Dh gave me flowers on my first mothers day without Floyd and then i gave him some power tools for fathers day. his BIL said ' what do get a present for? your not a father!DH spat it and said we created a child that grew and had a heartbeat. he felt Floyd moving in me and he saw his boy be delivered and to him that makes him a father!!!
celebrate mothers day. no matter how hard and traumatic it is, as you are all parents, its just our special angel babies were needed somewhere else. i belive it helps the grieving process. it has been 6 years since Floyd left us but he is always remembered and i could not live with the guilt of trying to scrub ANY important date or milestone.
Take care girls
love and remember your angel babies passionately.