Hi Samcougar

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As Flowerchild said there are many of us here who have sadly had similar experiences losing a baby. You are very strong for having returned to work so quickly. I am only just starting to return slowly for a few mornings each week. I have had the support of a psychologist who has helped me a lot and a few key people without whom I wouldn't have coped, even though some of them are many miles away. The ladies here at BB have been a great help. I hope you have some support people around you to help you through this time.

Many people seem to be advised medically to wait 2 or 3 months before TTC again, but emotionally some are told to wait 12 months. You will know when the time is right to start TTC again. I am coming to the realisation that our loss has changed us so much that what was normal will never be normal for us again. I wish you all the best on your healing journey.

Cheryl xo