Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/ Late Loss/Recurrant Miscarriage ~ December 2008

[dd0207]

Jo and Rozzie, don't you dare leave this thread! You pregnant ladies are my inspiration.

Rozzie, I really hope you get well soon. Rest up as much as you can and take care.

Paula, Lan's explanation is how I interpret CM so see if that helps. I really like the look of the chart, very scientific indeed. May have to give that a crack.

Yep, I have heard women can spot at O time but it has been too long for that and way too early for implantation. I am so sick of going to the doc and am sure my FS will put me in a mental institution soon. I've had my lining checked countless times - all good, I had a pap smear a month ago - all good, EVERYTHING looks good so what the f**k is going on???? Sorry, I'm cranky.

I need some advise please - I have told you before that prior to losing my baby boy I had very regular cycles and deemed myself quite fertile right? Then afterwards, sorry I know you have heard this a million times before but please humour me, MY CYCLES ARE MENTAL and it's just not happening. I know TTC for 5 months is not that long, but after having fallen so quickly previously, and with all the issues I am having now, I'm really worried.

Anyway, the reason I am ranting is my FS said that I should try IVF for 2 reasons
1. I'm an emotional wreck and
2. Am getting on a bit (just turned 38) and now would give me the best shot.

I have an appt with the clinic on Tuesday to decide whether I want to go ahead so what do you think? Should I keep trying naturally for a while longer or go for IVF and give myself the best chance considering all of the above?

OR if Lan's prediction is right and I fall naturally this month, then we can ignore all of the above and I will never mention my mental cycles again...