Hello ladies,

Lan, I hope the witch stays away for you I remember when I was pg with Jasmine I thought AF was coming for sure, so you never know.

Diana & Dee, still doing lots of prayers for you both . Hold on tight little ones and grow nicely for mummy!

Diana, I agree with Beata ring the OB. When I saw my OB for appointments around the time I lost Jasmine, when my OB saw me out of his office, he would say 'your right' as in don't pay at reception, but then a week or so later I would get an invoice in the mail. I ended up with about 4 of these! I am very sure that it was just the receptionist sending out the bills, not knowing that the OB was happy for me not to pay. I was even charged for going in to fill out a form to be admitted into hospital for the labour! I was so distresssed that at the time I just paid them, but if I got a bill now I would call. So you go for it and call on principal of your situation as well.

Teagz, I second that your not horrible at all, its a very natural reaction. Your turn will come soon hun. Really hoping that you get a wonderful 21st B'day present. Also, you raised an interesting question earlier re: whether to 'act like your pg' when ttc by not drinking, eating certain foods etc. I was wondering what people did as well, so put that question out again. I have been 'acting pg' so no drinking etc, but don't know the facts on this one. I read that you shouldn't drink from 5-days before ttc either but I'm not sure of the facts

Beata, so great to have you back, glad your little holiday was nice. I'm sorry that you hate work so much. I can understand you wanting to stay due to maternity leave, I am actually ready for a move myself, but want to stay for that reason, but at the same time my work environment is fine, so staying doesn't effect my happiness. I say if it is effecting your happiness and emotional wellbeing, its simply not worth it. You never know a move could actually pay you more so potentially equal out to your current salary + maternity leave, you never know

Noni, your story is so sad, it's just not right at all losing a little one like that. I really pray that you get a BFP soon and have a very uneventful 9-months

As for me O is approaching, YAH! so its action stations, I really hope this is it

Hello to everyone else.