TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth

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Beata, great news about the transfer, praying that bubs sticks in nicely. Rest as much as you can.

Thanks for the well wishes Jo & Cheryl, I am feeling the worry of those fragile early weeks, but praying that everything is fine this time.

Cheryl, I do think the AP helped. I don't think my blood circulation is great and I believe the AP helped with that which is important for implantation. I will continue to see her every 5-days for the first trimester. I'm not sure if that is more often then really needed, but that is her reco, so for now I'll go with that. I also get some other 'complications' with pg, so I'm hoping she can help with that as well. In terms of the CVS, you cannot get this done until 12-weeks, which is the same time as the NT scan. I'm not sure what we'll do at this stage but my thinking so far is I'll do the NT scan & blood test and if the results are good not do a CVS. I'll ask to get more regular scans to check everything and if all looks good at around 18-20 wks I'll pass on the amnio as well, but if there are any concerns whatsoever we'll get an amnio. But that is now, I may change my mind. I think its a great sign that you are getting EWCM, you obviously need to O before AF arrives, and perhaps that hadn't happened for you or for some reason a whole cycle was skipped. I can appreciate that it can be difficult to continue to DTD when you don't know what's happening. I found it really hard some months when I kept getting BFN's and my cycle was fairly ok - so I can imagine how frustrating it must be for you. Hang in there, things will get back to normal and you'll get your BFP, I'm sure of it. Are you temping? On another note, glad your holiday was nice and you did really well visiting your friends with the new baby, that couldn't have been easy. Please don't feel your being left behind, your time will come. I felt like that at time when everyone kept getting BFP's and moving on, but amazingly one day it will happen and it will feel like one big beautiful miracle and your day is getting closer and closer

Bec, sorry you are feeling really down at the moment. I haven't read your blog as yet, but I certainly will. I feel like that sometimes, I should have a 3-month year old and already be a mum, but here I am starting out again. Its quite strange really as my EDD with this one is 13-days before Jasmine's would have been a whole year later. I really pray you get a BFP soon, it won't take away the pain of losing Luca, but it will place new hope and joy in your heart.

Jo, thanks for dropping in. Good to hear that Kaitlyn is doing well and she's in a nice routine.

Have a lovely weekend everyone and you take care of yourself Beata.