Hi girls,

Mel - I am so sorry you're having such a crappy time at the moment, but please don't feel bad about posting it. We are the ones that can listen and understand when it feels like no one else does, that is why we are all here. I was thinking of you too today, I think you and I are always going to have a bad day on the 5th huh?

Lynn - I am so glad to hear that your feeling better, and try not to let that person upset you. You don't need that! And I think you are right, 2007 has to better for us all, and hopefully by this time next year our little group will be a mothers group instead

Clare - I am sure that you will have lots of good news to report after your scan on thursday, with a strong healthy bub in there tickling you! Happy birthday for tommorrow, I hope you have a great day.

Spring - I am sure like the girl said it is just down to DTD. I had the same in both my pg's. So try to relax...though easier said than done I know. I am glad you are going to your OB to get some reassurance tomorrow. Make sure you let us all know how you go.

Thanks to you all for your hugs and words. Managed to get through today pretty ok. Though about half an hour ago, I found a little blanket that my son had picked out for his "bubby" when my mum took him shopping one day many months ago. He had only just started to grasp the idea of us having a baby and wanted to buy a present. Anyway, I found it and wrapped it around her little urn, and then it kind of hit me all over again. I realised that he has also lost his litle sister, even though he doesn't really understand.

Well to you all and thanks again.