Naomi - You just need some faith that your OB will keep your bub safe.

SO why can friends be so (unintentionally) mean. So far this week I have been told that, I am letting my m/c define me and I have got to try and be more like my old self. IT HAS BARELY BEEN 4 WEEKS! Today my close friend told me she knows I am sad but I need to understand it was just one of those things that happens and i need to start getting over it and move on. AS IF IT WAS JUST THAT EASY!! Also I am a big girl and I had to hear for 19 weeks that I should have lost weight before my pregnancy by my mom. I have lost a few pounds (I am 3 pounds less than my pre-preg weight). I told a good friend at work that I am trying to lose some more weight and she said maybe my weight had something to do with losing my son. THANKS A LOT! Sorry I seem to rant a lot, I apologize. I don't think other people know how hard it is just to "pretend" to be normal. I went back to work after only 2 weeks because I needed the distraction, but I think other people assume I am "over it." Sorry i am done.

Barbara