Thanks for your advice Dream, you are right about one in all in, but I just don't want her to know. DH and I talked about it a bit more and I said 'if we told your Mum, do you believe she would not tell the rest of the family until at least 19 weeks?" and he said that he didn't trust her to keep quiet. That makes me even more cautious of telling her. I would be so angry if yet again she didn't respect our wishes.

Oh well, I am not going to complain too much, it is a good problem to have. I hope work wasn't too full on. I know what you mean about clean sheets. I love washing the sheets and the towels and a hot shower, clean PJ's and then to bed. It is the ultimate recipie for a good nights sleep.

off to organise dinner but I'll pop in later.

Luv Spring