Sorry Klee I didnt see you till after I posted, Im glad you had a good holiday. Your so right you are a mum and you will get that earth baby soon.

As for knowing what to say to you kids, you just bluff your way through and hope to god that they belive what you are saying and what your saying will have a positive affect on them. There is no instruction book on how to raise them you are just as much in the dark once they are out in the world as to the control you have over them in the womb! You just go with it and you to will be a wonderful mum and know just "what to say" .

Hope you have a good day

Luv Natxx