thread: TTC after Stillbirth/Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the 1st Trimester March 2007

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  1. #1
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    PS.. I changed my ticker. What do you think?

    Can you tell I'm bored? (lol)

    Luv Spring

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    Hey Spring, It has been quiet in here this weekend huh. Sorry DH has gone back, how long now until he is home for good? I bet you cant wait. Congrats on feeling movements I cant wait for that to happen, I loved feelings my baby move around inside me - I can still remember the feeling and it was the most amazing feeling I have had. I have often said through my life that it sucks to be a female cause we get all the crap stuff in life, but really I wouldnt give up being the one who carries a baby and experiencing that miracle first hand. DH says it is one thing he would love to know how it feels, to feel a bub moving around inside.

    Oh and I like your new ticker, I love the colours and it stands out heaps more than your other one.

    I did another HPT today and got BFN, in a way I guess it is still a little early but for some reason I am just not feeling all that positive. DH and I have planned to tell our families straight away so our plan was that if we got a BFP this month we would find out just before easter and we would buy an easter card for his mum (bugger his Dad) and my parents and write love from all of our names, Nicholas and ?. So now that we have planned that I have this awful feeling we have jinxed ourselves and counted our chickens before they are hatched and now wont get the BFP this month.

    Anyway I will stop going on and on now, seeing as your bored it wont bother you too much I guess LOL

    Enjoy watching your DVD

    Mel

    P.S. Lynn, I have been thinking of you and hope you are ok

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    Hey Mel: Sorry about the BFN but AF isn't due until next Sunday is she? So plenty of time yet for that wonderful BFP surprise. I think that the idea of telling your family at Easter is a wonderful idea. Don't worry, you won't jinx yourself planning ahead. I really hope that you get to send those cards.

    Well we are almost at the half way mark of DH being away which is nice. Still about 75 sleeps until he is home but better than the 131 when we started. I am not sure if what I felt last night was a movement because compared to the absoute thumps Harry used to give me, it was a light little flutter but I remember that is how it starts.

    Didn't get to watch my DVD. Put it in and it won't play, keeps saying DVD dirty. I have cleaned it and I just think it is scratched. So I am going to take it back and ask for a credit. Nevermind, I just feel like a relaxing afternoon surfing the net.

    Take care
    Luv Spring

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    Thats great that your half way there - the time will fly by I bet

    I remember that when the movements first started, for me they were around 18 weeks but then it could well be early if you have been pregnant before, and they were like little flutters - almost like someone was tickling you from inside.

    I hope you enjoy the rest of the day relaxing. I was so bad I slept in majorly and woke up just before 12, considering we got an extra hour last night thats especially bad. Now I have to go visit my mum cause she had an op on Friday, so I am gonna pop over and make sure she is feeling ok.

    Take care,

    Mel

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    Oh Mel I hope your mumma is ok and recovering well.

    I guess I am really anxious to feel movements so I think to a certain extent I might be wishing them to happen. 14 weeks is early, so hopefully I get unmistakable movements in a few weeks.

    Luv Spring

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    Thanks, Mum is ok - she had a kidney stone blasted and a stent put in. She was meant to go home on the day but was really sick from the general anaesthetic so had to stay in. Couldnt visit her yesterday though cause DH wants to come and he was working all day to get this urgent job finished. Mind you he is working again today cause it didnt get done but he is still coming to Mums with me.

    I would be anxious to feel movements too, I really think its one of the best parts of pregnancy dont you? And yeah I guess 14 weeks is early but stranger things have happened so it is definitely possible. If you keep feeling it every so often I reckon you can be pretty certain that it is. I remember I didnt realise I was feeling movements until about 19 weeks or so but when I realised it was I thought hang on I have been feeling that for a week or so now.

    Mel