Hello ladies, I've been away from computer access for a day or so and also have had to spend a lot of time catching up on all the goss! Sounds like there is a lot happening at the moment between testing, BDing, planning for BDing and support groups - good luck to all this month!

I'm at work as usual so just a quicky, but the hubby is home and has fixed the internet connect (hate feeling like a hopeless woman but i couldn't work it out!) so will send more personal replies from home. Briefly though:

Lynn I'm so glad you're getting on track with sorting everything out, knowledge is power and it's always great to feel you have some control over what's happening - in a field where that's often really hard!

Spring and Scarlet - thanks for your advice, it was absolutely spot on - I have tried the subtle approach before but when you're worried that every day you miss could be important it's terrible to get a knock back!!

Deb hope you are feeling well and survive the trip to the coast!! You are in the sunshine coast hinterland though aren't you? At least it's not as bad as the gold coast - I tend to avoid that place like the plague. Can I ask who Dr S is? Think I missed something there....

Nat I just wish that I had a friend with me who truly understood when I was going through m/c's previously, it must be hard for you as well but you are doing a wonderful thing by being there for her. I wanted to catch up with you for a chat since my initial post when you asked about medications etc seeing as you mentioned also having a similar background..

Just briefly, the hubby made it back for CD13 at least, so unless it's happened earlier we'll wait and see! Even though he'd been up for 20 hours he was a great sport this month - helped that he got attacked early in the night rather than when we went to bed though I'm away all next week travelling for work so it's going to be a busy few days between now and then......