Just a quickie for Spring, I'll pop back later to catch up with everyone else...
Just wanted to say well done you for getting through the AIL visit - she couldn't fool the combined radar of BB!! Bet it came as quite a shock to her for you to be so calm and composed and standing by your guns!! I bet Lil Spring was getting a few little kicks and jabs in too, with Harry looking down thinking 'my Mummy kicks butt!'! How could she say 'silly and unnecessary' - WTF was that supposed to achieve?? Are the women in your DH's family aliens or what??? I mean, what planet, eh???
If I had been treated as you have been, I would be saying 'thanks but no thanks' too, sometimes there is just no going back, and a mistake is just to big to ever put right again.
I think you were strong, brave and totally in the right - DH may love his mother in a 'have to' sort of way but I bet he sure doesn't like her much, so good to hear him backing you all the way. Just a shame they picked his birthday to hijack, so out of touch, aren't they.
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