DH just got home with the kids and told me that he has explained to them that I am upset and why. He said he thinks it is important that they know I am sad, firstly because he thinks they are old enough to know to thruth at 5 and 6 (2yo has been in bed having a nap since he left) and secondly because he said he thinks it is important they know that I am sad and not just grumpy - I guess kids do sometimes have difficulties knowing the difference between emotions. Anyway he said he told them I am sad because I want a baby and at the moment I cant have one I think I wish he hadnt of said that, now it will get back to their mother and as if she doesnt already dedicate her whole life to making ours hard she is gonna love the fact that she has given him 3 kids and I cant give him 1! She is a really nasty person and I guarantee she will be happy about this. I didnt tell him off though, whats done is done and I am sure he had good intentions.