Lynn: I just don't know what to say to make you feel better, I don't know if my words are good enough. I am not going to pretend what you feel like having the stress of TTC, but what I can say is that I think that grieving your struggle TTC is a natural reaction. It won't make you feel much better knowing it is natural, but it is hon.
You have had enough to deal with it, and by the sounds of it, every day is consumed with tests, medications, scans and hopes/fears. I think everything Deb said about why your FS is going straight to the injections makes a lot of sense, she knows much more about this than me that's for sure. Perhaps next time you see him you can ask him those questions just to confirm Deb's thoughts on the issues.
I am so sorry that you have been crying so much that you get a headache, is there anything I can do to help? If you want me to pop over after work tomorrow for a cuppa and a chat I can. Or if you want to have some Lynn Vent time on the weekend I am all yours. Even if you need to talk during work hours, you have my number so don't worry about calling me at work, nothing is more important to me then helping you get through this. Big warm :hugs: babe, hang in there sweetie.
Mel: About the OPK test and not telling DH, I think Deb is yet again right. It may be that our boys feel a bit of pressure when they know it is now or never. I know my DH hated OPKs and didn't want to know what I was up to. In his own words he said 'I am not your turkey baister' which I realised was his way of saying give me a break honey. That is him though, I am still not convinced he even knows what OPK's do (lol). I don't think that it is wrong to keep the testing to yourself, but I don't know your DH, if you think it is going to cause dramas with him, then I say honesty is the best policy. It is a hard one honey, but you will do what is right for you.
Tommysmum: You tell Bailey that if she doesn't come back I am going to come over there and kidnap her (lol) We miss her too much already Hope you get a better nights sleep tonight babe. Trust me, wild dreams during pregnancy are common. I have some of the most far out dreams, for example I got a tattoo on my back last night which was a to scale picture of a lion's head. Go figure, I don't have, nor do I want a tattoo, and the Lion thing, I don't get it.
Chelle: I am glad you are feeling a bit better today. How did the fence painting go? Did you get plenty of help? I hope so, make sure you and bub take it easy babe.
Klee: How are you doing babe? I hope today has been an ok day. You and your angel baby are always in my thoughts and my heart.
Big hugs to everyone else. I had a bit of a better day at work today. I am still worried that I can't feel movements yet. Thanks Deb for your advice about movements, I know it is the truth but to expect the worst is just my default mode at the moment. Get to see Lil Spring on Friday so that is good. I think we have decided on a name for Spring. We are thinking Oliver for a boy and Olivia for a girl, they both mean 'a symbol of peace" and go with the middle names (Michael or Mary due to family associations) we have picked and our last name. The initials will be OMG though, which is cute.
Hope you get a better nights sleep tonight babe. Trust me, wild dreams during pregnancy are common. I have some of the most far out dreams, for example I got a tattoo on my back last night which was a to scale picture of a lion's head. Go figure, I don't have, nor do I want a tattoo, and the Lion thing, I don't get it.
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