After DS1 died, we waited 6 months. Partly because we were waiting for genetic results but also to mourn. After DS2, it took about 9 months. I was deeply depressed and we didnt think it was safe for me. Again, we were also waiting for test results.

it's going to be tough no matter how long you wait. We made sure we had set up the support we'd need in terms of counselling and obs/midwives.