Just wanted share a quick story that might help you... My parents split when I was a baby, about 12 months old, my brother was 2.5 and we left with absolutely nothing. No house, no money, trashed car, no baby supplies. Salvation army gave us shelter and cloth nappies and centrelink payments covered food and fuel. We made toys from cardboard boxes. Sure we didn't live a life of luxury, we ate tinned sardines and vegetables most nights because it was the cheapest way for mum to get maximum nutrition to us kids, and we all shared a matress on the floor but we turned out fine. All your bubs need is a full tummy, a dry bum and a mothers love. Even though our situation was very traumatic for mum, it meant me and my bro grew up learning what really counts, and you can make light of what you've got, no matter how little that is. I'm about 2hrs drive from you but if you need a chat, or a box full of baby clothes/bottles/supplies just pm me x