I'm thinking that I might want an extra support person in there too, but DH is very much "I don't want anyone in there - this is an experience for you and me." While I understand his point, I'm finding it hard to explain why I think an extra support person (who is a professional -- it's not like it's a family member, which I understand he's uncomfortable with) is a good idea. Maybe we can talk to/meet with one and see how he feels after that. We have some time to think about it, but it's been on my mind a bit recently.