I was right there 18 months ago.

I fed DS for 2 years, weaned him to have DD 7 months later. Then fed her for 2 years. I felt after 5 years that I needed my body back.

After 8 weeks of dd going cold turkey, I couldn't do the screaming anymore. I put her on a bottle :/

I pretended to forget so often. Every night, all day. Up until about 3 months ago, if she got worked up the only thing that settled her was a bottle (it was always a sippy cup rather than a bottle, but no different).

It is only in the last 3/4 months she's finally given up. She still has a hand down my shirt all the bloody time! But, at 3.5 we're getting there!