Onthefly she is 19 months old.

I am pretty sure its a security thing because at night she sometimes does not even suck but just wants the nipple in her mouth.

We cosleep and love cuddling her to sleep anyway but just annoying when i need to go toilet she will wake.

I do feel sorry for her also so it is that i am too weak to wean her. She is severely allergic (have been tested) to cows, goats milk and slightly for soy.

How do i set boundaries? I have tried telling her to stop tweaking my nipples but she stops only for a bit and does it again.

I have also tried to stretch her inbetween feeds when i come home from work by distraction but she will get distracted for just a bit and then want milk again.

Problem is, as soon as she sees me my husband cannot comfort her. She will cry if i am not in her sight!

I dont think she has seperation anxiety as she does not cry when i drop her off at my mums in the mornings.

My mum also said she is totally fine when i am not there. She eats really well.

But when i am there she refuses to eat and wants to be fed constantly.