Oh forgot to mention too Pinky McKay has recently released an ebook, weaning with love. I was thinking of getting it!

I've been going well, we had a rough night and a great night. Night before we stayed at a hotel in the city prior to surgery, and I was so exhausted I let her feed, but then felt sore so got my butt out of bed and had to jiggle her for ages, lost my nut But I couldn't have her screaming the place down at 3am. A few times I noticed she woke right before she peed too, so maybe thats been waking her. But last night I was SO nervous, I am very sore from surgery and it is dad or nothing over night. We were dreading it badly, but she actually ended up sleeping in her toddler bed next to our bed (just set it up) and she woke at 3am! Despite being on Endone for the pain, I was wide awake until just now (starting to feel foggy), I think because I am not used to sleeping that long or unbroken! My partner tried settling her when she woke and did really well, she fell asleep on him fairly quickly and without screaming (its a VERY rare thing, yippee)!, but we couldn't get her back into bed, would try to get out after a couple of mins down. So we're up with her now, I am having a cuppa and a bit of PC time before crashing again and feeling really happy about what we've accomplished overnight. The surgery might have been just what was needed to really break through.