I couldn't read and not reply.

Are you sure there isn't another church you could get your dd baptised at? I cannot believe the way they've treated you. So judgmental.

I used to go to church often, but since ds it's been really hard too and they are so noisy that it embarrasses me - so I don't go. My dd2 is getting baptised this Sunday - and I haven't gone to church regularly for 18 mths, and they now it. It's the same place where my other two kids were baptised.

Some parishes arent as 'inclusive' as others.

So sorry this has happened to you hun