I guess a good question then is: Are you people who will work hard on your marriage?
As in, if there's an issue, will he work to make things better or say there's no problem? .
Another good question. I think the answer is yes. Dh can be a little slow to realise there is a problem, but once he does he get it, we work through it. We've talked about this one and we know it's not easy- sometimes, you need to work at things, talk through things, and compromise.

Another tick for the pro's list