Leyla: Will do keep all updated. Am not and was not thinking about another baby until Wyatt was aleast 1. I blame DH he should have gone and gotten snipped like we planned.

Anyway on the CC I was totally against it, but with 2 other children, life has to go on around Wyatt. I was at emotional break down about 4 weeks ago now, which helped me to see it was ok to let him have a little grizzle. So I tried it, I don't let get worked up.

And if turn from grizzling to crying then I will pick him up. But I know he does it to get mummy, I stay in the room, and he grizzles with eyes shuts. I only let him do it for maybe 2-3 mintues then I will pick him up and give him more boobie, and he was fall to sleep within seconds. I had been getting up to 3hrs nap from him during day, then he got cold, and we are down to about 40-60mins so we need to start having a grizzle again now he is all better.

BUT again I blame DH he brought me a lovley rocking chair to feed Wyatt and its just right for a cuddle, and but the time I look down he is asleep.

Give it a try, stay in room out of sight, and if at any point you dont feel compfortable then pick him up. But can it really hurt to try??? I feel better emotional when it only takes me 5 minutes to get Wyatt to settle rather then 30 mins. Anyway just my point and it works for me, but not for you.

Cheers
Sarah