My DH wants to know if I am ever going to go back to sleeping in our bed. I've been sleeping in the nursery since I was about 6months pregnant - like Sharon we have a waterbed. I would have thought he'd appreciate not getting disturbed sleep.
Fire - funny, but I took you for "someone else who is on top of this mothering thing". I'm not expecting it to get easier until 3 months. Haven't got many tips for you - you seem to be on top of most things.
Baby - you ight find that due to the reflux BJ is more comfortable on his tummy and therefore can settle himself off to sleep. If it were me I'd not try to fight it, let him get his sleep on his tummy, obviously you need to watch him. My DS was like that with his silent reflux, slept much better on his tummy - usually on my chest.